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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!

Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe

You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!

Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle

Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events

Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.

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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest

Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected

You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.

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How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters

Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.

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Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground

Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!

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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)

Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner

Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Meet Swingers Near You

Safe, sexy, and smart strategies for meeting swingers wherever you are.

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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening

What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

Tantric Experiences

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle

Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?

How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know

Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)

Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC

What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?

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Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle

Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?

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How to Post Travel Plans on SDC

This map might just get you laid!

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Exploring Menopause and Buttholes

Why is no one talking about menopause and the lifestyle? Oh, because it's really difficult to make sexy.

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger

This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?

Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?

Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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