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Threesomes

Did you know that threesomes are the most common sexual fantasy? In the swinging lifestyle, threesomes are popular among swingers and swinger couples. Get tips on how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, and more threesome advice.
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The Finish Line
Game night takes a flirty turn when a playful video game wager raises the stakes — and the loser hands over their phone for the winner's choosing.

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Best Ever, By Accident
A voyeuristic Home Depot confession unlocks a shared threesome fantasy that turns their apartment into a marathon of best-ever sex.

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The First Conversation
A couple's first tentative conversation about opening their relationship turns into a shared decision to explore swinging together.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Have the Best Cuckold Experiences
Elevate your cucking experiences from good to unforgettable.

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How Did We Get Here?
A couple's first fantasy conversation unexpectedly launches them straight into a full-swap mindset.


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How to Host a Private Swinger Party: 10 Key Tips
Ace the next swinger party you host with this primo advice.

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Newbie Cucks and Cucking Couples: How to Navigate the Cuckold Lifestyle
Everything worth knowing about cucking as you take your first real steps into the lifestyle.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Get into the Swinging Lifestyle
New to swinging? Here are some introductory tips!

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

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Erectile Dysfunction in The Swinging Lifestyle
Navigating desire, pressure, and play with confidence in swinging spaces.


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Single Men in The Lifestyle: How to Get Chosen as a Third
A polished look at how single men can elevate their presence and become unforgettable thirds in the swinging lifestyle.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!


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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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Threesomes and Group Sex in the Swinging Lifestyle
Lexi Sylver shares expert guidance on navigating group sex dynamics with confidence and clarity, whether you’re exploring solo or as part of a partnership.


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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.


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Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?