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Did you know that threesomes are the most common sexual fantasy? In the swinging lifestyle, threesomes are popular among swingers and swinger couples. Get tips on how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, and more threesome advice.
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How to Host a Private Swinger Party: 10 Key Tips
Ace the next swinger party you host with this primo advice.

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Newbie Cucks and Cucking Couples: How to Navigate the Cuckold Lifestyle
Everything worth knowing about cucking as you take your first real steps into the lifestyle.

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Newbie Cucks and Cucking Couples: How to Navigate the Cuckold Lifestyle
Everything worth knowing about cucking as you take your first real steps into the lifestyle.

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Erectile Dysfunction in The Swinging Lifestyle
Navigating desire, pressure, and play with confidence in swinging spaces.


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Single Men in The Lifestyle: How to Get Chosen as a Third
A polished look at how single men can elevate their presence and become unforgettable thirds in the swinging lifestyle.

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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PREMIUM
Threesomes and Group Sex in the Swinging Lifestyle
Lexi Sylver shares expert guidance on navigating group sex dynamics with confidence and clarity, whether you’re exploring solo or as part of a partnership.


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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!

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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!


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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?


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PREMIUM
Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?

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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!