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Drifting in Desire
The Lust Sailors sail into a secluded cabin with a new friend from SDC, and let the hot tub and the night take the helm.

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The Night We Almost Read It Wrong
A missed signal nearly ended the night before it began, until one text turned awkward goodbyes into an unforgettable four-way exploration of desire.

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What to Expect on a Swingers Cruise
What really happens on a swingers cruise? From ship layout to etiquette, get all the details here.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

Aphrodisiacs
There are different opinions about what sexual arousal and desire actually are.

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Musical Chairs
A wife's naughty twist on musical chairs turns a couples' party into a game where the last one standing surrenders to whatever the night has in store.


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The Finish Line
Game night takes a flirty turn when a playful video game wager raises the stakes — and the loser hands over their phone for the winner's choosing.

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Erotic Entanglement
Two strangers' online message becomes a hotwife love story twenty-five years in the making.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


Weed to Help Women Orgasm
So, how do you get past the climax block? What if there was a natural substance you could take to help you reach that ultimate high ... on a number of levels?

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PREMIUM
Pillow Talk
After 25 years of marriage, a couple rekindles their passion by exploring a shared fantasy together.

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PREMIUM
How Did We Get Here?
A couple's first fantasy conversation unexpectedly launches them straight into a full-swap mindset.


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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.


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Safer Sex Hacks
Smart, judgment-free guidance on STI risk reduction, testing, PrEP and HIV prevention. Plus, how to talk openly with partners about safety and boundaries.

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Women's Sexual Health Hacks
Unpacking blood flow and real lubrication. Plus, the tools that keep pleasure and confidence alive at every stage of a woman's life.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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6 Good Reasons to Open Your Relationship
More and more couples admit to being tempted to open their relationship. Given that you're reading this, you might be, too.

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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.


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Cap d'Agde Swingers Vacation: Champagne, Foam Parties, & More
Cate and Darrell go to the swingers' mecca, Cap d'Agde, and retell the funniest and sexiest stories.

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Rediscovering Soft Swap at Dutch Swingers Club Fun4Two
Are you a long-time full-swap couple who often rule out soft-swap profiles? Now is a time to reconsider that as Cate and Darrell share a recent soft swap at a swingers club and how hot it was!

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Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!