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Pleasure toys aren't just for masturbation! Sex toys can help improve your orgasmic potential and spice up your partnered sex life. Discover new ways to enjoy your sexual experiences with sex toys, how to use sex toys in a threesome or group sex scenario in the swinging lifestyle, and much more.
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Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Swingers Clubs in South Florida: From Miami to West Palm
Where the forecast always calls for a very seductive weekend.

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PREMIUM
Strap-On Sex
A judgement-free how-to on strap-ons for every experience level, from choosing shape, size and material to techniques that build real confidence.


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The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.

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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?


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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.


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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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PREMIUM
Dark Silence: Writing Contest Winner!
They take sensory deprivation to delicious depths

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PREMIUM
The Self-Love Conversation
Hosts Adam and Pris embrace the act of self-love in their conversation on masturbation.


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PREMIUM
Talking Fantasies in Relationships
Adam and Pris discuss their personal fantasies and desires, sex lives, open communication, and more.

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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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PREMIUM
Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.


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PREMIUM
Mechanic Boy and a More-some
TallnSexy shares the stories of Mechanic Boy and their first more-some

Glamorous Couple Posing SDC Valentine's Spotlight 2025
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.

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Help, Jason Keeps Growing! & How We Wrangle Unicorns
Jason and Stephanie talk about their experiences with unicorns, including how they engage safely with them in practice.