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Orgasms

Everyone deserves pleasure! There are many types of orgasms you can experience, including squirting and prostate orgasms. Learn how to give your lover an orgasm, how to make a woman squirt, how to have multiple orgasms, how to delay your orgasm to make sex last longer, and more sex tips.
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Premature Ejaculation in the Swinging Lifestyle
How to deal with pressure and timing in erotic play spaces.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!


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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

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PREMIUM
Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Cuckolding for Beginners: How Couples Explore Cucking Safely
A grounded starting point for couples ready to turn the fantasy into something real.

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PREMIUM
Rediscovering Soft Swap at Dutch Swingers Club Fun4Two
Are you a long-time full-swap couple who often rule out soft-swap profiles? Now is a time to reconsider that as Cate and Darrell share a recent soft swap at a swingers club and how hot it was!

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!


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PREMIUM
The Self-Love Conversation
Hosts Adam and Pris embrace the act of self-love in their conversation on masturbation.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.


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PREMIUM
Talking Fantasies in Relationships
Adam and Pris discuss their personal fantasies and desires, sex lives, open communication, and more.

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PREMIUM
Christmas Eve Surprise for His Wife!
A holiday twist on the fantasy of going home with the bartender

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PREMIUM
Mile High Club Before Christmas
Two ladies take this lucky man's holiday flight to new heights.


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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.

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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!


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PREMIUM
Jack: Our First Threesome
Hear the story of TallnSexy's first threesome.

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PREMIUM
Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.

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PREMIUM
Male Multiple Orgasms: Separating Ejaculation from Orgasm
Most men experience orgasm and ejaculation as one event, but did you know they can be separated?