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Orgasms

Everyone deserves pleasure! There are many types of orgasms you can experience, including squirting and prostate orgasms. Learn how to give your lover an orgasm, how to make a woman squirt, how to have multiple orgasms, how to delay your orgasm to make sex last longer, and more sex tips.
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A Yes Without Words
She stepped out wearing nothing but moonlight. By the time the second couple asked to join, the water was already electric.

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The Gift
A birthday surprise in the pool becomes a shared celebration, where one woman is worshipped by three eager lovers.

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One Perfect Moment
After Katrina turned their world upside down, a chance connection led one couple to Desire, Mexico — and a naked poolside welcome they'd never forget.


SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

It's About More Than Just Good Vibrations
It's About More Than Just Good Vibrations
As our relationship between sexuality and technology evolves, so has the sex toy industry and the way in which we interact with toys.

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Spinning Bottles and Rolling Dice
A snowy New Year's drive, a gorgeous redhead in the next parking spot, and a game of dice where one lucky wife kept rolling the spiciest orders.


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It Started as a Poker Night and Became a Poke Her Night.
A silent nod between longtime spouses turns the annual poker game into something far more electric.

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Pillow Talk
After 25 years of marriage, a couple rekindles their passion by exploring a shared fantasy together.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.

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Best Ever, By Accident
A voyeuristic Home Depot confession unlocks a shared threesome fantasy that turns their apartment into a marathon of best-ever sex.

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PREMIUM
Erotic Entanglement
Two strangers' online message becomes a hotwife love story twenty-five years in the making.


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Premature Ejaculation in the Swinging Lifestyle
How to deal with pressure and timing in erotic play spaces.

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!


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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.


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Orgasm & You
Dragonfly Lee on her first orgasm in her mid-twenties and why performance anxiety isn't a flaw. Plus, how letting go of the finish line unlocks pleasure.

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Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?

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Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!


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Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

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Rediscovering Soft Swap at Dutch Swingers Club Fun4Two
Are you a long-time full-swap couple who often rule out soft-swap profiles? Now is a time to reconsider that as Cate and Darrell share a recent soft swap at a swingers club and how hot it was!

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Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!