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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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Female Orgasmic Disorder: Understanding Pleasure Without Shame
Struggling to orgasm isn't a personal failure. Heather explores why pleasure differs for every body and how to let go of shame and expectations.
Heather Hembree
What Is a Swinger Hotel Takeover? What to Expect From a Lifestyle Weekend
A swinger hotel takeover turns a whole hotel into a private lifestyle weekend. Learn how vetting, room blocks, etiquette and checkout work.
The Scary Side of the Lifestyle
Swinging coach Lauren gets real about ghosting and the elusive four-way match, and explains why the lifestyle's hard truths are worth pushing through.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
Elevated Intimacy
Tantra coach Justin Gottlieb draws on 20 years in the lifestyle to share tips that help your next sex party feel safer and far more connected.
Swinger Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules of the Swinging Lifestyle
How to master swinger etiquette, from consent to discretion, to keep being invited back.
How to Vet a New Partner in ENM Before You're Emotionally In
New Relationship Energy quietly edits what you overlook. Ask the real questions early, while your head is clear enough for the answers to matter.
Cuckolding for Beginners: How Couples Explore Cucking Safely
A grounded starting point for couples ready to turn the fantasy into something real.
Boundaries vs. Borders: Why Most People Confuse the Two
Most of us set borders when we mean boundaries. Discover the simple shift that helps you feel safe without trying to control your partner.
What We Didn’t Know About The Lifestyle
Frisky Neighbors Saphyre and Carnelian share the surprises of their early lifestyle days, from endless costume themes to learning swinging isn't polyamory.
Drama in the Lifestyle
Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy get real about lifestyle drama and why honesty and genuine friendship should always come before play.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.
Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.
What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.
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Lifestyle Events 101
Think big lifestyle events are only for pros? Lauren Hayes explains why they're the perfect first step and how to prep with your partner.
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Erotic Resurrection
The Erotic Godmother reveals why eroticism begins not with sex but with feeling your own skin, and how tending yourself like a garden awakens desire.
Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.
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Breakfast for Three
A chance encounter at the hotel jacuzzi turns into a golden morning where one night clearly wasn't enough for the three of them.
The Jealousy Reset Protocol
Jealousy isn't the problem. What you do in the sixty seconds after you feel it, that's the whole ballgame.
Swinger Clubs in California: From the Bay Area to the Desert
The hard part about swinging in California isn't finding a club, it's choosing one.
How to Host a Private Swinger Party: 10 Key Tips
Ace the next swinger party you host with this primo advice.