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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Polyamory vs. Open Relationship vs. Swinging
Non-monogamy terms get used interchangeably, but they're not. Here's how to tell them apart and pick the structure that fits you.

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PREMIUM
Breath and Heat
A slow-burn night in the hot tub where a falling towel is only the beginning.

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PREMIUM
A Night of Liquid Surrender
Steam, moonlight, and a slow-burning invitation: one couple's hot tub encounter turns from private passion into shared, breathless surrender.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

Aphrodisiacs
There are different opinions about what sexual arousal and desire actually are.

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PREMIUM
A Yes Without Words
She stepped out wearing nothing but moonlight. By the time the second couple asked to join, the water was already electric.


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PREMIUM
The Gift
A birthday surprise in the pool becomes a shared celebration, where one woman is worshipped by three eager lovers.

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PREMIUM
Spicy Hot Tub Invitation
One couple's first house party in the lifestyle, from a steamy hot tub to a kink-filled playroom and every surprise in between.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


Weed to Help Women Orgasm
So, how do you get past the climax block? What if there was a natural substance you could take to help you reach that ultimate high ... on a number of levels?

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PREMIUM
A Sea Voyage of Pleasure With My Master
Devotion and surrender aboard a private yacht with five hand-picked couples.

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PREMIUM
Steam and Shadows
A couple's first night at a discreet sauna club, where the only rules are consent and desire.


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PREMIUM
The Villa of Secrets
A woman on a mission from her Master: be watched, be wanted, and confess every single detail.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.


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Drifting in Desire
The Lust Sailors sail into a secluded cabin with a new friend from SDC, and let the hot tub and the night take the helm.

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The Jealousy Reset Protocol
Jealousy isn't the problem. What you do in the sixty seconds after you feel it, that's the whole ballgame.

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Is Non-Monogamy a Sign Something's Missing?
That second thought is the dominant cultural script, and it shows up almost everywhere people go looking for answers, including in AI relationship tools.


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My Partner Wants to Open Our Relationship and I Don't
I'll lead with what's wrong with him, or with how a genuine desire and a genuine no can only end one way: slowly, in silence.

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6 Good Reasons to Open Your Relationship
More and more couples admit to being tempted to open their relationship. Given that you're reading this, you might be, too.

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PREMIUM
The Wealth of Vikings
A first lifestyle party, a mansion by the water, and three numbered doors — one couple's nervous, thrilling introduction to the world of consent and curiosity.


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PREMIUM
One Perfect Moment
After Katrina turned their world upside down, a chance connection led one couple to Desire, Mexico — and a naked poolside welcome they'd never forget.

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PREMIUM
The Night We Almost Read It Wrong
A missed signal nearly ended the night before it began, until one text turned awkward goodbyes into an unforgettable four-way exploration of desire.

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PREMIUM
Poolside at Hedo
A last-minute trip to Hedonism, a blindfold at the pool's edge, and the electric thrill of surrendering to sensation with everyone watching.