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Build anticipation and give your partner extra pleasure with foreplay. Get oral sex tips to give the best cunnilingus and blow jobs, and discover more advice on making foreplay exciting and enjoyable for you and your lover(s).
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Breath and Heat
A slow-burn night in the hot tub where a falling towel is only the beginning.

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When Three Is Not a Crowd
An old flame and an unexpected third wheel by the hot tub change Bea's plans for the night entirely.

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The Spark in Linthicum Heights
A couple's charged conversation about a friend's swinger lifestyle turns into a raw exploration of trust, jealousy, and how far they're willing to go together.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

Aphrodisiacs
There are different opinions about what sexual arousal and desire actually are.

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Best Ever, By Accident
A voyeuristic Home Depot confession unlocks a shared threesome fantasy that turns their apartment into a marathon of best-ever sex.


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Erotic Entanglement
Two strangers' online message becomes a hotwife love story twenty-five years in the making.

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How Did We Get Here?
A couple's first fantasy conversation unexpectedly launches them straight into a full-swap mindset.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


Weed to Help Women Orgasm
So, how do you get past the climax block? What if there was a natural substance you could take to help you reach that ultimate high ... on a number of levels?

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PREMIUM
The Waiting Changes Everything
A quiet afternoon on his lap turns into her confessing what she really wants, and how far honesty might take them.

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Pillow Talk
After 25 years of marriage, a couple rekindles their passion by exploring a shared fantasy together.


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How to Host a Private Swinger Party: 10 Key Tips
Ace the next swinger party you host with this primo advice.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.


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Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.

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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!


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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.

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6 Good Reasons to Open Your Relationship
More and more couples admit to being tempted to open their relationship. Given that you're reading this, you might be, too.

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How to Handle Rejection in the Swinging Lifestyle
Because it happens to everyone, and how you respond says a lot about your reputation.


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What Is “Reclamation Sex” (and How to Have It)?
The sex you have after a big open relationship experience can be powerful and intimate.

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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.