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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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PREMIUM
Cap d'Agde Swingers Vacation: Champagne, Foam Parties, & More
Cate and Darrell go to the swingers' mecca, Cap d'Agde, and retell the funniest and sexiest stories.

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!


 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?


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The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution, or Opportunism?
Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)

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Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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PREMIUM
Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!


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STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.