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Build anticipation and give your partner extra pleasure with foreplay. Get oral sex tips to give the best cunnilingus and blow jobs, and discover more advice on making foreplay exciting and enjoyable for you and your lover(s).
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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle. 

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.


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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.

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How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.


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Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground
Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!

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How to Meet Swingers Near You
Safe, sexy, and smart strategies for meeting swingers wherever you are.

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.


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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.


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How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)
Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!
It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!

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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.


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Why Denver’s Lifestyle Scene Is Perfect for Newbie Swingers
The Mile High City might seem an unlikely contender for a swinging community hotspot, but that’s exactly why it’s perfect for those taking their first steps into this exciting, sexy world.

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Swingers’ Guide to Vegas After Dark: Beyond the Clubs
Whether you're swinging in Las Vegas or enjoying a week-long couples getaway, here’s your definitive guide to everything sultry and seductive to do between parties.

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How to Plan the Ultimate Swinging Lifestyle Weekend in Vegas
If you’re thinking about a naughty weekend in Sin City, here’s your guide to enjoying limitless adventure while swinging in Las Vegas!