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Within the erotic world of sexual exploration, you can enjoy everything from "vanilla" sex to indulging in kinky escapades. Learn more about the wide range of sex practices and techniques you can enjoy.
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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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PREMIUM
Christmas Eve Surprise for His Wife!
A holiday twist on the fantasy of going home with the bartender


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PREMIUM
Our Hotwife Christmas Celebration
This couple finally meets their Bull for an erotic hotwife holiday

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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.


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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Is There Cheating in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Do swingers cheat? Can there be cheating in an open relationship?


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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events
Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.


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Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground
Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.


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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?


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Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle
Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?

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PREMIUM
Exploring Menopause and Buttholes
Why is no one talking about menopause and the lifestyle? Oh, because it's really difficult to make sexy.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle


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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?

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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.