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From threesomes to orgies, group sex is a big part of the swinging lifestyle and a gateway experience for many swinger couples. Get tips on how to have a threesome, how to plan a gangbang, how to find a unicorn, and more. Find out how to meet sexy swingers near you to hook up with, and explore SDC's swingers parties and swingers clubs listings.
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Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!

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Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!


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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!


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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.


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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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SDC Breaks Records & Rewards Members with New SDC Premium
SDC.com surges past record-breaking 650M views, rewards members with premium upgrade

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Mechanic Boy and a More-some
TallnSexy shares the stories of Mechanic Boy and their first more-some

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Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.


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Reaching New Heights With the Eiffel Tower Sex Position
Looking to spice things up with a third? The Eiffel Tower position offers visual excitement, deep connection, and playful coordination. Discover how to explore it with creativity.

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A Real Couple's First Time Swapping
Jason and Stephanie share their story of guiding a newbie couple through their first swinging experience.

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Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.


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Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.

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Story: Gangbang Thursday
This story is an excerpt from an episode of Awkward Pillow Talk, where they describe their first experience at a lifestyle club.

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Help, Jason Keeps Growing! & How We Wrangle Unicorns
Jason and Stephanie talk about their experiences with unicorns, including how they engage safely with them in practice.


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You Want to Go to a Swingers Resort
Stephanie and Jason discuss the thought process leading up to their first trip to Hedonism in Jamaica.

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Awkward Stories: 3 Real-Life Soft Swap Adventures
Jason and Stephanie open up about three of their most memorable — and hilariously awkward — soft swap experiences.

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Interview with Hedo Joe
Joe Canino shares his experience and insights about Hedonism II in Jamaica, a popular vacation spot for those in the lifestyle.