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From threesomes to orgies, group sex is a big part of the swinging lifestyle and a gateway experience for many swinger couples. Get tips on how to have a threesome, how to plan a gangbang, how to find a unicorn, and more. Find out how to meet sexy swingers near you to hook up with, and explore SDC's swingers parties and swingers clubs listings.
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Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.


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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!


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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.


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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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SDC Breaks Records & Rewards Members with New SDC Premium
SDC.com surges past record-breaking 650M views, rewards members with premium upgrade

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Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.

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Mechanic Boy and a More-some
TallnSexy shares the stories of Mechanic Boy and their first more-some