Q&A: She Wants to be Choked & Spanked. Can I Really Do That?
                
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            BDSM is not meant to be damaging. If there's consent, you can rest assured that you're not hurting your partner.
        
        Especially in long-term relationships, it can be challenging to rid yourself of the mental block that's getting in the way of treating your BDSM-desiring partner to the activities they'd like you to perform on them. Charlie and Arienne share some tips on how to overcome this hurdle in this Q&A edition of SexBecause.
                                                                                                                         Trifecta of Kink Cruise Part 3
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    The sexy saga at sea concludes with a roundtable discussion about everything from self-collaring to relationship myths.
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
                                                                                                                         BDSM 101: Discovering Submission
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    How did you find out you were a submissive? One small act showed Julieta the power of submission and the balance it gives her life.
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
                                                                                                                         Dominant Red Flag: Accusing Subs of Topping from the Bottom
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    Kayteezee explains why you should look for the dominant who is curious and wants to know your needs as a sub, for if you find someone who already has all of the answers, you may find yourself a square peg being forced into a round hole.
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
                                                                                                                         Q&A: How Long is Too Long to Wear a Butt Plug?
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    Keep it lubed up, and you'll be surprised by how long you can wear one!
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
                                                                                                                         Q&A: How Will It Feel Seeing My Husband with Someone Else?
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    Don't just go for it and hope for the best! Try this instead.
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
                                                                                                                         Q&A: My Husband Wants Me to Play Separately. Now What?
                                                            
                                                            
                                                        
                                                    If he says it's a fantasy of his, why not entertain the idea?
                                                
                                                                                                
                                                
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