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We all want to be good lovers and give our partners pleasure! Get sex advice to give your partner an orgasm, tips on hooking up, how to make threesomes and group sex more enjoyable, and more.
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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.

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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!


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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.

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Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.

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PREMIUM
Our Hotwife Christmas Celebration
This couple finally meets their Bull for an erotic hotwife holiday


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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!


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Flirting Into Foreplay!
Flirting isn’t just for first dates! It’s the secret sauce that keeps relationships fun, playful, and connected, both in and out of the lifestyle.

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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?


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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?