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SDC Lifetime Membership Special!
If you’re not a Lifetime Member yet, don’t miss your chance! For the month of December, you pay only half, and in 30 days, you pay the second half. Once you become a Lifetime Member, you will never pay another membership fee on SDC!! (after Lifetime Upgrade is complete) Benefits:
As a Lifetime Member, you will have full access to all of the great features with no restrictions. You will enjoy Gold Star status, connect with more couples, benefit from increased visibility (including the Online page), and get top-priority placement on private and public party guest lists. Searching by Lifetime Members is also part of our member search page.
(Only valid for memberships paid within SDC.com — not paid within the app)
Improvements
- Video calls are now available across our platforms between apps and browsers.
- SDC Feed upgrade with improved functionality, including creating your own posts
- Video calls are now available across our platforms between apps and browsers.
December Naughty & Nice Couples Challenge
Make December the month you pour into your relationship in small, powerful ways that actually matter. Starting December 7 – 28, you’ll receive one simple, intentional mini-mission each day. All of them are designed to help you stay close, grounded, and connected — no matter how wild the holiday season gets. Joining the challenge also enters you into our December giveaways:
• A Weekend at Secrets Hideaway
• SDC Annual Membership
• The Flirty Pineapples Dare Deck
• STD Hero test kit This challenge is for couples who want to: Join the Flirty Pineapples group on SDC for all the details and more daily challenges... and get ready for your mission.
• Some are sweet
• Some are spicy
• Some deepen emotional intimacy
• Some spark desire
• Prioritize their primary relationship
• Stay flirtatious even when stressed
• Feel more like a team
• Bring more warmth and intimacy into their ENM experiences
• Start the new year feeling solid and supported
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books written by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members. This month, we’re introducing Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, written by renowned podcaster Kathy Kay of STRICTLYANONYMOUS: What are people really doing behind closed doors? Have you ever wondered if your neighbor, boss, or even that buttoned-up PTA member has a hidden, naughty lifestyle, kink, or fetish? For the past decade, complete strangers have been divulging their secret sex lives to the Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast host, Kathy Kay. After hearing more than 1,000 stories, Kathy is ready to share some of her favorites. In this debut must-read, you’ll meet: • A devout religious couple who secretly opened up their marriage Sexy, surprising, titillating, and true, the seventeen retellings in Strictly Anonymous Confessions do not spare a single dirty detail! Get your copy now on Amazon! Praise for Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Kay’s signature interview style transforms seamlessly into storytelling, bringing these almost-unbelievable real-life stories to the page. – Molly Roden Winter, NYT best-selling author The fabulously freaky scenarios in this book are a potent dose of inspiration. – Susan Bratton, the "Intimacy Expert To Millions" Like slipping into a stranger’s bed, this book thrills with erotic confessions that are raw, filthy, and unforgettable. Kathy Kay is like your naughtiest best friend, spilling shocking secrets that seduce you with every page. – Lexi Sylver, award-winning erotica author Porn is just fantasy—this is real. A must-read for anyone seeking an unfiltered look at what sexually adventurous people are doing behind closed doors. – Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, NYU professor of Human Sexuality
• A cuckold and the ultimate hotwife
• A grandmother who became a porn star in her sixties
• A suppressed divorcé who found sexual freedom in swinging
• An insatiable woman who has been in over fifty gangbangs
• And many more!
Contests
Congratulations to ZARAMEHER for winning the Reflections of Desire photo contest and to CAFECONMILK for winning the Fantasy Roleplay Scene video contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, Morgan Reynolds, and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:
New – Inside Our Playful Paradise – Video Contest
Current – The Red Lip Affair – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Beyond the Bedroom – Writing Contest
SDC Shop
Are you attending an SDC event or another open-minded party soon? Then we have something for you! From now on, you can shop the best SDC items that are guaranteed to make you stand out. In our shop, you'll find a fantastic collection of t-shirts, swimwear, towels, caps, and even bathrobes. All featuring the stylish and recognizable SDC logo. Perfect for completing your look and showing your true colors. Ideal for the party, by the pool, or just relaxing at home! For anyone planning their own party or just wanting to be well-prepared, we also have a wide range of handy extras, including lubes, boat flags, beach flags, parasols, and more!
Cruise News
You choose who participates! Participation through a unique private voting among applicants.
Cruise duration: 7, 4, or 3 nights.
Quality over quantity: limited places and selection through voting to ensure elegance, quality, and exclusivity.
Open-minded travel • Elegant atmosphere • You choose who joins!
Curious? Contact Us Today!
There is never a dull moment on Bliss Cruise. The party begins the moment you step on the Celebrity Silhouette for this six-night sailing to the western Caribbean. Bask in the sun on our clothing-optional pool deck. Sign up for our workshops where you and your partner can discover new pleasures and indulge in your every fantasy. Make new friends and spice up your vacation at our various meet-and-greet events. At night, our DJs pump up the energy for our fun-filled theme parties where you can dance the night away.
Don’t miss out on this incredible cruise. Reserve your spot now and be part of the BLISS experience!
Itinerary:
Sun, Apr 26, 2026 - Fort Lauderdale, Florida - 04:00 PM
Mon, Apr 27, 2026 - Sea Day
Tue, Apr 28, 2026 - Montego Bay, Jamaica - 12:00 PM 07:00 PM
Wed, Apr 29, 2026 - Sea Day
Thu, Apr 30, 2026 - Cozumel, Mexico - 07:00 AM 06:00 PM
Fri, May 01, 2026 - Sea Day
Sat, May 02, 2026 - Fort Lauderdale, Florida - 07:00 AM
Ready to experience the adventure of a lifetime or want more information?
Contact us today or Join our SDC Group!
Baby It’s Cold Outside…
But Hot in our BNBs!
Frost on the windows, fire in the fireplace, and maybe a little extra heat between the sheets — that’s what December getaways are all about. Our SDC BNBs are perfect for romantic hideaways and playful retreats with private hot tubs, luxury linens, and all the seductive reasons to stay in. When it’s cold outside, that’s when the real fun starts inside.
Check out our latest additions!
FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Miss V
With extensive experience as an Intimacy Coach, Educator, Public Speaker, and as a former professional Dominatrix, Miss V focuses on helping couples and women. She can’t wait to help you on your way to more connected Kinky Intimacy. Miss V offers a wide range of workshops, events, resources, personal workshops, and coaching where you and your partner can learn, experiment, and grow in a safe space. Her interactive workshops offer a judgment-free space to explore new communication options, strengthen trust and connection, and get inspiration to explore other ways for play, intimacy, and sexuality. Every couple is unique, as is every person. Together with Miss V, you’ll discuss your desires, limits, and goals, and start exploring these with her support. Join the guestlist for one of Miss V’s upcoming livestream webinars on SDC!
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FEATURED BUSINESS
ASN Lifestyle Magazine
Introducing ASN Lifestyle Magazine — your premier destination for sophisticated lifestyle and adult entertainment enthusiasts. As the leading authority in swinging and alternative lifestyles, we deliver exclusive coverage, insightful articles, and stunning features tailored to your passions and interests. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or just starting your journey, ASN Lifestyle Magazine is your trusted source for all things adult lifestyle. ASN Lifestyle Magazine has fully transitioned to a subscription-based model! To celebrate, SDC members can enjoy a 50% discount on any subscription plan — monthly, annual, or lifetime — using promo code SDC50 on our Pricing Plans page. Get premium content, exclusive insights, and unbeatable value. Embrace the lifestyle with ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and take advantage of this special offer for SDC members today!
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FEATURED EXPERT
Throuple Talk Podcast
Meet the trio behind Throuple Talk Podcast, a roundtable-style show hosted by a committed, live-in polyamorous throuple. Their mission is simple yet powerful: to offer help, hope, and community to anyone seeking meaningful non-monogamous relationships. Drawing from their lived experience in an egalitarian plural marriage, along with candid interviews from guests across the ethical non-monogamy spectrum, the Throuple Talk team brings grounded, real-world wisdom to conversations that are often overlooked or misunderstood. Their approach is refreshingly open, honest, and deeply human — aiming to reshape societal norms by showing that monogamy isn’t the only path to a healthy, loving partnership. Whether you're navigating an open or polyamorous relationship, exploring possibilities with a partner, or simply curious about non-monogamy, Throuple Talk is a warm and trustworthy resource for insight, validation, and encouragement. Listen to Throuple Talk’s podcasts here on SDC!
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A Hall Pass for Christmas?
Is a 'hall pass' the right way to spice up your sex life?
Last year, an article in the telegraph.co.uk suggested that men should give their wives a ‘Hall Pass’ for Christmas. Well, it’s almost Christmas time again, and we just wonder how many hall passes were given out. The suggestion came from Dr. Wednesday Martin. She is quite sure that women are more likely to become bored with sex, especially when having sex with no one besides their own partner. But can you just give your wife permission to have sex with another guy and not feel any jealousy? Can you just let her go without potentially damaging your relationship? ... READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Saturday Exclusive Xmas Costume Party
Duncanville, TX
Saturday, December 6, 2025 10pm Couples/Females Only Join us the first Friday and Saturday night monthly at PlayhouseDFW Ultra Lounge!
Dressing in Costume not mandatory but fun
We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in the DFW area.
his is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseDFW.com). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In the DFW Area. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events! We Encourage You To Dress To Impress.
SDC Winter Glow Party
Miami, FL
Saturday, December 6th, 2025 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight
SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays Join the Miami Velvet SDC Community for more information about upcoming Miami Velvet events and specials!
Bad Santa Christmas Party
Mexico City, MX
Friday, December 12th, 2025 It's time to give and receive! Tonight, the naughtiest and most mischievous among us will receive the best gifts. Come sing, dance, flirt, and bring your wildest fantasies to life. LIVE BAND performing the best pop songs in English and Spanish.
SDC Mixer / Erotica Friday
Manhattan, NY
Friday, December 19th, 2025 Beautiful couples and single girls only! A high class, swanky setting for a fetish / swingers party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more.. New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle Friday night party. Only prescreened attractive couples and single girls are allowed. WE ARE MEMBERS ONLY! SINGLE GIRLS ALWAYS FREE! EROTICA is a party where all your fantasies will come true, come play, watch and be watched! Come dance on our VIDEO Dance floor to the sounds of our live DJ We are the club “Where the pretty people play “ ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE MEN! NO WALK INS REGISTRATION ON OUR WEBSITE W/FULL BODY AND FACE PICTURE OF BOTH IS A MUST TO BE APPROVED. All Sexy and Fit couples welcome!!! (Must be 21 and Over) No Single Guys Permitted SINGLE FEMALES ARE ALWAYS FREE!!! CHECKMATE is a members only private club. ALL GUEST MUST BE REGISTERED AS MEMBERS. Visit our website for more info, or inquire for More Details at info@checkmatenyc.com
Dress To Impress!
The Christmas Delight - A Cosplay Winter Erotica
Pattaya, Thailand
December 20th & 21st Cosplay Winter Erotica “Christmas Delight 2025” is a strictly Experienced Swinger couples Event. This is an exclusive arrangement for the selected global swinger couples, brought together to explore their limits of fantasies and to find new dimensions to their kinkiness in a safe and carefree atmosphere. A world class setup is a key to fulfillment in the sin city of Thailand, PATTAYA. 20th (Saturday) & 21st (Sunday) December 2025
( 2 Day/nights), Check-in- 20th December Before 5 PM Local Time.
Check-out- 22nd December morning before 11 AM. Venue: A 4 Star Hotel with Pool & Banquet in PATTAYA, Thailand. Highlights:1. An Er
otic DJ Night where participants will be dressed in their kinkiest outfits seducing & luring others.
2. A Pool Event at Noon to ignite the fire of desires further.3. A
Cosplay Night with Thai performers. Where all the participants will experience the uncontrollable lust and desires, dressed in nasty role-play costumes. Thai Female, She-male & Boy performers will sizzle the mood on the beats of DJ to bring out the real nastiness within you.
Solstice of Sins
London, UK
Saturday, 20th December, 2025 The nights are growing longer. While we’re still savouring the last drops of sunshine, the Solstice — and Xmas — are already on the horizon. 20:00-3:00 This year, we’re giving you more than just a party. We’re preparing the grand celebration of the season, a night where the darkest evening of the year becomes the most decadent, vibrant, and unforgettable. Surprises will remain veiled for now, but anticipation will build with every whisper we release. EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED SHIBARI THEATRE
A new 7 Sins signature, reinvented for this night alone. Ropes that don’t just bind, but tell a story. EROTIC RITUALS OF THE SOLSTICE
You’ll be welcomed into sensual rituals designed to prepare your body and mind for the longest night of the year. THE FEAST OF THE SENSES
Hot wax dripping, oils melting into skin, — each surprise curated to tempt, tease, and push you to surrender to sensation.. CAVIAR, SERVED SINFULLY
This won’t be a simple tasting. It’s an indulgence ritual. Will you let it melt on your tongue... or taste it from another’s skin or a nipple? THE SOUNDTRACK OF DESIRE
World-renowned DJs, curators of some of Europe’s most unforgettable dance floors, will guide your body into rhythm, taking you from pulse to climax. HOUSE DOMME & DUNGEON
Play room, dungeon, House Domme and everything that you need for the most sinful night.
Desirè
Milan, Italy
Saturday, 10th January, 2026 Party time: from 10:00 PM to 11:00 PM
End of party: 4:00 AM Private event: reserved for couples and a limited number of singles.
Dress code: Ladies — elegant, sexy dress and mask. Gentlemen — black formal suit, white shirt, black bow tie, and mask. Couples: €450
Single men: €450
Single women: €50
Gold Pass: time: 8:30 PM cost €50 per person Participation is by selection only. If you’re interested, contact us or check our website LIBERTINE QUEEN https://www.libertinequeen.com/en/insolita LET THE GAMES BEGIN As tradition dictates, Desirè is a masked event. Upon arrival, every woman will receive a mask chosen by us — a symbol of Desirè’s elegance and identity. At the entrance, every guest will receive a mask chosen by us, a symbol of Desirè’s elegance and identity. All the women will wear identical masks, as will the men, creating a visually striking, refined, and mysterious atmosphere. Right after, each couple will receive their card — a symbol of a destiny yet to be discovered. Behind the masks and through glances exchanged over clinking glasses, the search begins: somewhere in the room is the couple holding the twin of your card. From midnight onwards, the night will evolve into a web of sensations, bodies, and freedom — leading you into a unique and unforgettable experience.