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Improvements
- Posting Private & Public Parties now available in the SDC App
- Multiple image and video uploads now available for Public Parties
- Coming Soon: Messenger improvements…
Hot Tips
Navigating Parties & Events: Our Parties & Events page, located in the main menu, is a great way to discover private and commercial events near you and around the world. Once you arrive on the page, you will notice parties listed in a grid view by date and distance, up to a 200-mile radius (in most cases). Important information — such as the type of event, location, event organizer, party criteria, and how many people are on the guest list — is visible at a glance. Click on the party flyer to open the full page to see more detailed information and to add yourself or request an invite to the event that appeals to you. You can even click Remember to save your choices for later. At the top of the grid view, you will notice the option to post your own private party; this option is only available for paying members of SDC. Once you post your own party, it goes through an approval process and then shows up on the party page and on your profile. There is also the option for an incognito private party for those who prefer their party to be completely private. The calendar button, also located at the top of the page, gives you the option to view an entire month at a glance, showing the number of private parties in green and commercial parties in orange on each day of the week. Click the day, and it will pull up a list of events taking place; if there are many events, you will need to click on Show More to see the entire list. A cool thing about the calendar view is it allows you to go back to previous parties and find those that were on the guest list that you may have met in person. The Filter button offers many options to help you find what you’re looking for. For example, you can search for webinars only without having to scroll through hundreds of events. Commercial events also have subcategories to help you find specific types of events, like Fetish parties. Use the Saved Events slider to find the parties that you want to Remember for later. You also have the option to extend your mile radius or just type in a completely different zip code, state, or country, and the calendar will take you there. Always remember to click the OK button after making your selection.
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FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Adonis Allen
Step into a world of sensuality, storytelling, and unapologetic authenticity with this month’s featured host, Adonis Allen, the force behind House Allen, Dallas’s premier destination for alternative nightlife and erotic artistry. A captivating Reality TV personality, published erotic author, and commanding Sensual Dominant, Adonis curates immersive experiences that blend erotic education, kink expression, and artistic performance. In his Boa Erotica After Dark webinar series on SDC’s live streams, Adonis delivers live readings from his seductive fiction, interactive BDSM and fetish demonstrations, and insightful lifestyle coaching, all designed to educate, arouse, and empower. Whether you're exploring your desires for the first time or deepening your journey into kink, Adonis invites you to indulge from the comfort of your screen while staying connected to his high-end in-person events in Dallas. Check out Adonis's profile and upcoming events here on SDC!
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Castaways Travel
From mild to wild — Castaways Travel books it all! Whether you’re dipping a toe into the lifestyle or diving in headfirst, Castaways Travel is your hookup for the sexiest clothing-optional lifestyle getaways. Cruises, group trips, nude resorts — we’ve been booking them (and hosting them) for over 40 years. From soft swap to full swap, voyeurs to exhibitionists, beach days to bucket list cruises — If it’s hot, fun, and adult-friendly — you’ll find it on our calendar. We handle the details. You show up ready to play!
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Eve Hall of Please Me! Podcast
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Erotic Daters vs Swingers
At parties, Meet & Greets, and events, it is not entirely uncommon to meet people with a different set of reasons for why they are there in the first place. While full-on swinger couples and singles are there to hook-up primarily for sex, it is not the goal for erotic daters. So, why are they there in the first place? Interesting question!
More and more in sexy, non-monogamous circles, it is noticeable that the group of erotic daters is becoming bigger. The threshold for attending sensual parties and erotic events are quite flexible. The knowledge about these parties and events taking place are increasingly more widespread, accepted, and advertised. Those adults no longer feeling comfortable in a regular club setting, often because of age, still want to feel sexy and have fun, so they seek alternatives to hanging out and party. What exactly is the difference between erotic daters and swingers? Is there even a certain synergy? ...READ MORE
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
PIGALLE
Alessandria, Italy
Saturday, 5th July, 2025 Libertine Queen presents: “Pigalle” the party that will take you back to the luxurious atmosphere of the Parisian Belle Epoque. THE PARTY NB: To ensure absolute privacy and exclusivity, the use of mobile phones or recording devices is strictly prohibited. DRESS CODE
Adequate clothing for the elegance of the evening is expressly requested:
Ladies: let yourself be inspired by the theme of the event
Gentlemen: in an elegant total black suit, including a black shirt. Tie or bow tie not mandatory. Elegant shoes of any color. AT YOUR DISPOSAL PARTICIPATION FEE
A location inspired by the transgressive and sophisticated atmosphere of the historic Parisian district will immerse you in a night out of time.
Retro and refined atmospheres will mix to the rhythm of an engaging DJ set, while exceptional performers will give life to suggestive and provocative shows.
Inside, spaces designed down to the smallest details will guarantee comfort and privacy, while an internal garden will be available for moments of knowledge and complicity under the stars.
Our open bar will offer a selection of refined drinks to accompany every moment of the evening, making every toast a moment to remember.
Rooms, dark room, orgy area and BDSM area will be available until the end of the night.
Different play rooms - BDSM Play Room
Dark room
Indoor garden
Guarded cloakroom - Open bar lounge with Franciacorta and premium cocktails - Finger food buffet all night Two DJ sets - Immersive entertainment and shows Dedicated staff -Absolute discretion and security service.
€350 for couples and singles - Free entry for single women
SDC Masquerade Party
Miami, FL
Saturday, July 5th, 2025 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
Annual White Ball sponsored by SDC
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 5 July, 2025 Exciting Annual White Ball at Wicked Club Marbella! Sponsored by SDC Wicked Club Marbella Anniversary Party! Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! Dress Code: WHITE! Exciting Theme Party at Wicked Club Marbella, Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! Looking for an unforgettable night of fun, connection, and adventure? Join us at Wicked Club for our exclusive themed party, where open-minded people come together for an evening of thrilling experiences in a safe, judgment-free environment. Whether you’re looking to explore your fantasies, meet new people, or simply enjoy a night out with like-minded individuals, our swingers club offers the perfect setting. This event is open to all, from first-timers to seasoned lifestyle enthusiasts, with exciting themes to spark conversation and create an atmosphere of playful seduction. Enjoy the sexy, vibrant atmosphere with themed décor, live DJ sets, dance floors, private lounges, and sensual play spaces designed to help you relax and indulge. Event Highlights:
Exclusive Theme: Dress to the theme or dress provocative, sexy, and elegant!
Open to Couples & Ladies only: Whether you’re flying solo or coming with a partner, there’s something for everyone. Luxury Play Spaces: Experience our private, upscale play areas designed for comfort and intimacy.
Dress Code Encouraged: Dress to impress and fit the theme, or come as you are and enjoy the party atmosphere. www.wickedclub.com
20th Anniversary Foam Glow Party @ Caliente
Land o Lakes, FL
Saturday, July 12th, 2025 ALL DAY We’re taking things back...way back, to the party that started it all! Mark your calendar and get hyped for Foam Glow at Caliente. Special guests join us poolside and in the club, so make plans to get here for the whole day. Nightbreakers poolside from 1-5 PM and Chachi in the Nightclub starting at 10 PM. Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
SDC Couples Weekend (Sat)
Sunbury-on-Thames, UK
Saturday, 12th July 2025 Couples & Single Ladies Only
No Single Gents or TVs, no exceptions
NOW! Every 2nd Friday & Saturday of the month
Friday 9pm-1:30am (Last Entry Midnight)
Saturday 9pm-2:00am (Last Entry Midnight) This party is ideal for Newbie Couples & Ladies
WE HAVE TEAMED UP WITH SDC, TO BRING YOU THE CHANCE TO WIN FREE SDC MEMBERSHIPS. EVERY MONTH
WE ARE GIVING AWAY ONE 6 MONTH MEMBERSHIP
WORTH £85 to The sexiest dressed Single Lady on Saturday. ONE YEARLY MEMBERSHIP WORTH £125 to the sexiest dressed Couple on Saturday ONE LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP
WORTH A WHOPPING £240 to the sexiest dressed Couple with a Weekend Pass To win dress as you would normally, and well choose the sexiest, most striking, or original outfits! Judges: Me, myself and I, Jan, a guest, staff member, or both Popes, if available. WEEKEND PASS
All Couples can purchase a discounted Weekend Pass to both events via EventBrite (SATURDAY WORKS OUT AT £8pp!)
9 playrooms (4 large private rooms), the biggest UK Club Dungeons (Yes, 2!), New refurbished Schoolhouse, Grope Maze, 4*6 Dogging Vehicle, Cinema with LIVE STREAM from area 69 (a well-signed playroom), Chesterfields & Wood Panelled dance and lounge area, Cage on the Stage and darkroom, 2 garden areas 1 covered and heated. Independent Sonos speakers in the Cage dungeon, primary Dungeon and Courtyard Garden along with a 4 channel sound system in the dance hall. Bar, Couples Corridor, MakeUp & Dressing Room, great staff, sensible prices, BYO Alcohol and more!!
This is one of our busiest parties! Newbie Couples & Ladies: This is a fun and busy party we think you will enjoy it!
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Sweet Summer Sizzle at Oasis Estate Resort
Baytown, TX
Saturday, July 19th, 2025 Oasis Estate Luxury Resort & Spa cordially invites you to Sweet Summer Sizzle, A day of unrestrained and sensual pleasure by the pool, happening on July 19th. This event is designed to ignite your senses and leave you craving more, all within the luxurious and private setting of our resort. Imagine starting your day with our signature cocktail, the "Sizzling Summer," a tantalizing blend of exotic fruits and premium spirits, crafted to stir your desires. As you sip on this delicious concoction, you'll be surrounded by the lush landscaping and majestic palms that frame our 26-meter, Olympic-style resort pool, setting the stage for a night of pure indulgence. Poolside Paradise: Private cabanas equipped with plush futons, indirect lighting, ceiling fans, mini-fridges, and privacy screens for optimal enjoyment and intimacy.
Relax in our year-round hot tub, elevated above the pool, with a capacity for over 20 guests, perfect for sharing intimate moments.
Recreational areas such as a putting green, Bocce ball court, and corn-hole toss offer a fun and relaxed atmosphere. Sweet Summer Sizzle promises a day of passion, pleasure, and unforgettable memories. Immerse yourself in a world of sensual delights and let your desires run wild. We can't wait to see you there! And for those who want to enjoy something extra special and desire to make their Oasis weekend a bit longer, we have added, “Dinner With Your Host” on Friday night. This can be one couple or up to six couples maximum. Friday night's party will include cocktails, and a chef prepared meal and a chance to truly learn more about each other. This is an add on to your Saturday night ticket, and will include your suite for Friday night as well. Alcohol Included With Vast Selection of Premium Spirits: From 9 PM to midnight, treat yourself to our premium open bar, offering a vast selection of top-shelf liquors, including tequilas, vodkas, and whiskies. Let us know your favorite spirit, and we'll make sure it's available to keep your glass full and your spirits high. Entertainment: Our resident DJ will set the mood with a mix of sultry tunes and sexy beats, ensuring the energy remains high and the atmosphere charged with anticipation. Get ready to dance the night away under the stars.
SU Pool Festival at France Cap 27 Juli
Hérault FRA
Sunday 27th July, 2025 Secret Underground POOL FESTIVAL @ France * Largest most beautiful pool location (slightly smaller than Ushuaia) with best dutch DJs, entertainment, Festival Stage with 3d laser, video wall ... amazing ** EARLY BIRD SDC Tickets online €24,95 **
! ONLY FOR THE CRAZY SEXY PEOPLE ! * The line-up of these artists to bring Cap to a higher level:
- Mr & Mrs Secret
- Spider Willem (Full Moon)
- Eric van Kleef
- Ko-C b2b Gina Storm
- Dj Iwan
- Marcello
- Emiel Roché- Tony da Groove *Beautiful sexy shows, Hermosos shows sexy Dress code: Sexy, Lingerie, Sexy Bohemian, Kinky, Beach (NO Jeans/casual/naked!)