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Congratulations to SEX4LOVER for winning the After the Party writing contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
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The SDC Profile Glow-Up Challenge
30 Days. 30 Tiny Tweaks. Big Visibility Energy.
And a chance to win 1 free year on SDC.com
AND 3 Days/2 Nights at Caliente Resort (value $973)
AND The Flirty Pineapples Dare Deck
Ready to get your profile on everyone’s radar?
Join Bella for the SDC Profile Glow-Up Challenge, a month-long community experience designed to help you boost your visibility, attract more genuine connections & feel more confident about how you show up on SDC.
Each day, you’ll get a quick, simple challenge that takes less than five minutes, from updating your cover photo to joining new groups, writing better bios & engaging in ways that get you seen.
No massive overhauls. No stress. Just small, sexy shifts that add up to big results.
Join the Flirty Pineapples group on SDC for all the details and more daily challenges... and get ready to give your profile a glow-up!
Discover the SDC shop
Do you wish to make an impression on that nice couple from the club? Design your own business card here … or shop for fun accessories like lubes, boat flags, stickers, bracelets or other promotional materials that will really make you stand out. Want to complete your look entirely? Then shop our clothing line with an SDC logo. From T-shirts, polos and tops to comfortable bathrobes and bath towels. All of this can be personalized with our own profile name. Perfect for completing your look while showing where you belong. Ideal for a party, at the club, or just for relaxing at home!
BNBs: More Than One Kind of Feast
Thanksgiving isn’t just about turkey and all the trimmings; it’s about indulgence in every sense. The right BNB can set the stage for a weekend of cozy meals, intimate moments, and memories you’ll want seconds (and thirds!) of. Whether it’s a cozy secluded cabin, a chic city loft, or a countryside estate built for retreats, November is the month to get stuffed in more ways than one. So, pack your sexy appetite and your favorite person (or people), because SDC BNBs are serving more than just pumpkin pie.
Cruise News!
Go Bigger. Go Bolder. Go Bliss.
WONDER OF THE SEAS NOVEMBER 8–15, 2027
THE WORLD'S LARGEST LIFESTYLE EVENT IS NOW OPEN Bliss Cruise just unlocked the next era. Wonder of the Seas is our canvas for the world’s largest lifestyle event of the year, and you’re invited. In celebration of our 10-Year Anniversary, we’re launching this epic new cruise with special low introductory pricing, but rates will rise before the end of the year, so book now to lock in the best deal. Wondering About Wonder of the Seas? ONE WEEK OF BLISS, ENDLESS WAYS TO PLAY 22‑hour Playrooms for round‑the‑clock fun Eight "neighborhoods" for easy meet‑ups Clothing‑optional open decks 15+ dining hotspots and 10 bars and lounges New Bliss Signature Events Exciting new theme nights Bliss' sexy, fun energy is taking over all 18 decks with new themes, upgraded kink spaces, and non‑stop ways to connect with other couples. Take a Peek Inside Wonder 2027 Get the full story behind our boldest charter yet, what’s new for playrooms and parties, plus how to pick the perfect cabin.
FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Lauren Hayes
Her journey began with a single question from her husband: “Is there something more?” that led them down a path of curiosity, communication, and connection. Lauren brings credentials (CTI Life Coach training and Gottman Level 1) and lived experience: 19 years married, with over 6 years in the lifestyle. Today, she’s passionate about helping others start their own journeys with clarity and confidence.
Lauren offers private coaching and engaging workshops, and educates with video courses and live webinars she hosts on our SDC Live Streams.
Check out Lauren’s profile SWINGINGCOACH to learn more about Lauren and her upcoming events.
Plus, join Lauren’s group on SDC: Swinging Lifestyle Coach.
FEATURED BUSINESS
The Resort
Following in the footsteps of the private hotels first popularized in London in the mid-’90s, The-Group Resort borrows from that sense of inclusion created by a members-only retreat. Driven to a level of service on par with the most recognized luxury hotel brands in the world. Ours is a private enclave, without a name and designated by only a street number, because privacy and discretion go hand in hand with relaxation and retreat for our discerning members. During the high season months, we present a rolling program of highly curated week-long events. With custom-tailored amenities and high-end guest services, members and their guests can delight in the sensual and boutique spaces. Returning, time after time to West End Jamaica, secure in the knowledge that everything is taken care of with passion and dedication. The result is a highly crafted and curated open lifestyle experience, where members come to expect the unexpected touches of hospitality.
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FEATURED EXPERT
Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast
Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast, where you get to listen in to the secret lives of total strangers. Podcast host Kathy Kay talks to real people about their interesting, secret, NAUGHTY lives, as well as giving them her unprofessional advice. If you have a secret, interesting, NAUGHTY life and/or a problem you want to discuss while remaining anonymous, contact her on SDC. Listen to Strictly Anonymous podcasts on SDC!
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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.
The multitude of labels in "the Lifestyle" can often become confusing, especially to new explorers. To add to the complexity, as with all language, the meaning of some labels evolves over time, leaving even those experienced in the Lifestyle scratching their heads.
The word Hotwife seems to be one of those labels! It is used in a variety of contexts, but what does it really mean? Is there an overlap between hotwifing and swinging, or are they totally separate activities? Let's explore these questions...READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Dirty Martini Meet & Greet
Phoenix, AZ
Friday, November 7th, 2025 Help us give thanks for all of our friends and all of the bounty(booty) we have this season. Couples and ladies, please join us for our meet and greet in November as Dirty Martini takes over the upper bar at Blue Martini November 7th, 2025 at 6:00-9:00. Take advantage of Blue Martini's Happy Hour (4:00PM to 7:00PM) for some tasty appetizers and drinks. Our group will have the upstairs bar area (near the restrooms) during this time, after 9:00 the upstairs bar opens to the public, we don't have to leave, feel free to stay and enjoy the music and dancing! Blue Martini is changing up the music for the summer with some new country tunes on Friday.
Sexy Swinger Karaoke Dance Party at Platforms
Providence, Rhode Island
Saturday, November 8th, 2025 Get ready for an unforgettable night of music, dancing, singing, mingling, flirting, naughtiness, and pure excitement! On Saturday, November 8th from 8:30 PM – 2:00 AM, join Rhody Boats at Platforms Nightclub, 163 Poe St, Providence, RI for a high-energy lifestyle/kinkster/swinger event like no other. The Night Includes: • Karaoke all night long
• Sexy dance floor & dance pole
• DJ Nasty D & DJ Phoenix Rising bringing the beats
• VIP tables and swag bags for the ultimate experience
• Full cash bars
• Private & open play areas
• Smoker’s patio (420 friendly)
• Prizes, giveaways & surprises
• On-site security for your safety
• Plenty of free parking.
Club M4 Neon Saturday Night
Toronto, Canada
Saturday, November 8th, 2025 Brighten up your night by wearing your flashy neon-colored sexy outfits and/or put some glow sticks around your neck and on your arms. Then show off your flashy moves on the dance floor before going to our fantastic play area! *Couples $60*Single
Females Free
*Club M4 Membership Required
Club M4
1989A Dundas Street East
Mississauga, Ontario
647-430-7975
www.clubm4.com
SDC Red Hot & Blue Veterans Day Party
Euless, TX
Saturday, November 8th 2025 9pm - 4am RED HOT & BLUE
VETERANS DAY PARTY FEATURING
Lifestyle DJ Vibe Daddy
On the inside stage "The McGarth Project"
Party Band The band will start playing @ 10:30 on the garden of Eden stage,
Along with the DJ spinning the hottest dance beats. CONTEST:
Ladies' Wet T-Shirt Contest
(Judged by the band)
1st place $FREE SATURDAY PASS Prize Men’s Wet Underwear Contest
(Judged by the women)
1st place $$FREE SATURDAY PASS Prize So wear your sexy military uniforms, camouflage or USA red, white and blue, to support our Troops EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX. 76040
SDC Sunday Funday Pool Party at the Rooftop Resort
Hollywood, FL
Sunday, November 9th, 2025 Noon till 4pm Come on out to our Hottest, Sexiest pool party ever!!! IMPORTANT:
Arrive early if you want to get a parking space close to the hotel, otherwise you will have to walk a distance.
Helpful reference: https://www.hollywoodfl.org/285/Parking-Locations
The hotel lot is ONLY for Guests with a Hotel Room.
If the weather does not cooperate, no worries, the party will be moved to the 2nd floor, where the club and playrooms are. So, Come on out and join us for some Naked Fun!!! Sun your buns, visit with old friends and make a few new ones. B.Y.O.B. - Mixers & Set-ups provided COVER CHARGE:
$100 - Couple / $40 - Single Ladies (Get $5 OFF Per Person when you add yourself to the SDC Guest List and mention your screen name when you arrive.)
$120 - Select Single Men (Strictly Limited w/current Rooftop Membership and Must contact ROOFTOP to be added to the guest list.) DON’T DRINK AND DRIVE!
GET A ROOM!
Mention Your SDC Screen Name when booking your room.
1215 N Ocean Drive
Hollywood, FL 33019-3310
Phone: (954) 925-0301 See website for more details:www.RooftopResort.com
Lifestyle Happy Hour Meet & Greet
Kansas City, MO
Thursday, November 11th, 2025 Welcome to those that are new to the lifestyle and kink world... this will be the perfect soft landing. To those who are in the lifestyle... a good place to meet new and connect with old friends. Our Kinky Happy Hour is just that. A happy hour with those from the kink, poly, BDSM and swingers world that would like to meet and network without heavy distractions and large financial investments to attend. See if this is for you and or meet those that you've probably never met before. This is a great place to vet for other clubs and parties or find someone that fits the dynamics you're looking for in the lifestyle. Great drinks and a chill vibe. Mahogany & Art will be hosting this event series and we will be able to answer your questions about their future events and private parties. SOME OF OUR EVENTS FOR THE REMAINDER OF THE YEAR INCLUDE:
- MEET AND GREET HAPPY HOUR
- TRAINING SKILLSET COURSES
- A LARGE PLAY PARTY WITH DUNGEON & PRIVATE PLAY ROOMS...
- 4th ANNUAL 3-DAY NYE HOTEL TAKEOVER
We also tend to throw a few demonstrations here and there. https://www.xxperiences.com/xxmeetgreet
Marbella's only Eyes Wide Shut Party!
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 15th November, 2025 Seductive Eyes Wide Shut Party – Wicked Marbella Marbella’s most exclusive Eyes Wide Shut experience returns on Saturday, November 15th at Wicked Club — a decadent masked evening exclusively for couples.
Inspired by mystery, elegance, and hidden desires, this night promises to be one of the most unforgettable events of the year. Slip into your finest attire, conceal your identity with a mask, and step into a world of provocative encounters, sensual energy, and thrilling seduction.
Behind the anonymity of your mask, inhibitions fade, fantasies ignite, and passions come alive. Event Highlights:
Masks Are a Must – enter the mystery and allure of a true Eyes Wide Shut night.
Couples Only – a refined and exclusive atmosphere for sophisticated guests.
Seductive Atmosphere – live DJ sets, elegant themed décor, and decadent play spaces.
Luxury Venue – Wicked Club Marbella’s chic lounges, private rooms, and sensual play areas.
A Night of Mystery & Desire – the perfect balance of intimacy, excitement, and erotic adventure. Why Attend?
Explore your desires in a safe, judgment-free space.
Meet like-minded couples who share a passion for adventure.
Indulge in a night of elegance, mystery, and playful seduction.
Experience Marbella’s only authentic Eyes Wide Shut party. Details:
Location: Wicked Château, Ctra de Cadiz, N-340, Urb. Pinomar, KM 189, 29604 Marbella
Doors Open: 21:00
Dress Code: Elegant, sexy, and masked – masks required for entry. Limited Availability – advance reservations highly recommended.
Secure your place now for Marbella’s most seductive masked night of the year. What Awaits You:
Live DJ sets & dance floor – keep the energy electric all night long
Luxury play spaces & private lounges – designed for intimacy, fantasy, and connection
Exclusive to couples & single ladies – a safe, sensual, and sophisticated environment Venue:
Wicked Château – Wicked Club Marbella Reserve Early – Spots Fill Fast! Our themed parties are among the most anticipated events in the lifestyle scene.
Don’t miss your chance to be part of a truly unforgettable night of decadent pleasures, and wicked connections. www.wickedclub.com