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Improvements
- Couples can now update their gender to single male or transgender themselves, and from female to male, single male, or single female to transgender, and vice versa, without contacting Helpdesk.
- We have redesigned the Album tab under Settings to make its features more visible and offer a better user experience and guidance.
- Private party owners now see their parties listed within their group.
Advanced Member Search
Finding your matches on SDC has never been easier! Using our Advanced Search feature allows you to really narrow down the criteria and find members that you are looking for. First, select if you are looking for Couples, Singles, or Transgender; it allows you to select more than one option if needed, including those members who are looking for you!! After that, you can go into as much or little detail as you wish, including their Subscription Status, Sexuality, Body Type, Age, Relationship Orientation, and much more… The Location option allows you to seek out those you are interested in within a mile radius of your location, and if you're traveling, you can update that location to where you will be for the weekend, for example. Another cool feature is that you can save your search criteria by simply sliding the slider at the bottom of the page to the right and then clicking OK. This will save you time next time you want to use this feature. The Advanced Search feature can be found in the main menu under Search or by clicking the magnifying glass icon located at the top right of your screen. We hope you find this feature helpful, and as always, we are available to answer any questions you may have.
SDC Premium
Introducing SDC Premium, now included with your paid full subscription on SDC.com! You’ll get access to even more of what you already love on SDC:
- New podcasts
- Exclusive videos
- Expert articles
- Real stories from members of our SDC community
- Education on sexuality, wellness, relationships, & more! Start exploring SDC Premium here!
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books written by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to LUIZEMONICACASAL for winning the My Hot Tub Adventures Writing Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, Morgan Reynolds, and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: Current – After the Party – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Couples Chemistry – Video Contest
Voting Underway – The Seductress Stare – Photo Contest
SDC Shop
Are you attending an SDC event or another open-minded party soon? Then we have something for you! From now on, you can shop the best SDC items that are guaranteed to make you stand out. In our shop, you'll find a fantastic collection of t-shirts, swimwear, towels, caps, and even bathrobes. All featuring the stylish and recognizable SDC logo. Perfect for completing your look and showing your true colors. Ideal for the party, by the pool, or just relaxing at home! For anyone planning their own party or simply wanting to be well-prepared, we also offer a variety of hand extras, including lubricants, boat flags, beach flags, parasols, and other fun items.
Upgrade your BNB Profile
Sometimes, it’s the little things that get overlooked in the hosting hustle. Here are a few quick tips to help your space shine and bring positive energy (and bookings) flowing in!
Snap it Like it’s Hot
First impressions matter! Blurry phone pics? No thanks! Swap out those low-quality images with high-quality professional photos that really encapsulate the vibe of your space. Make your place look irresistible and have guests mentally moving in before they even pack.
Clean is the New Sexy
Clean space = clear vibes. And in the lifestyle scene? Hygiene isn’t just appreciated; it’s essential. A spotless environment helps guests feel comfortable and ready to enjoy themselves. Make sure you brag about your hygiene standards in your listing; nothing ruins the mood like questionable surfaces.
Set the Mood, Seal the Memory
Want to really wow your guests? Put together a cheeky welcome kit packed with goodies, flirty surprises, and treats that set the mood. It’s a sweet little secret that not only will your guests love, it will also keep them coming back for more.
Ready to turn up the heat and fill your place? Go make your listing the hottest thing on the site.
Cruise News
Ahoy, SDC Members! We are more than thrilled to offer the option to learn more about lifestyle cruising within our SDC community. SDC is fortunate to have Bliss Cruises on board with us to offer you personalized service right here within our site. We also recommend joining the Bliss Cruise group so you don’t miss out on important information, and it's a great way to connect with fellow cruisers before you go! Check out some of the cruises on offer for 2026 / 2027: Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Reflection - November 2025 - WAIT LIST AVAILABLE - SDC Guest List FantaSea Connections Cruise - February 2026 by Right Connections Travel - Book today - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: RCI Radiance of the Seas - February 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Silhouette - April 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: RCI Wonder of the Seas - November 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Summit - February 2027 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List
FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Frisky Neighbors
Join Carnelian and Saphyre as they unravel the intricacies of ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle. Dive into personal stories, debunk myths, and get inspired by interviews with others in the lifestyle. Whether you're curious or a seasoned participant, discover a community where every relationship is celebrated. Join the guestlist for Carnelian and Saphyre’s upcoming webinars on SDC!
FEATURED BUSINESS
STD HERO
AT-HOME STI TESTING Convenient & Discreet — Doctor-verified results within 48 hours via secured portal. STD Hero is a proven & trusted CLIA-certified clinical laboratory based in Alpharetta, Georgia, dedicated to making sexual health accessible by offering convenient at-home STI testing solutions. Our products include: *** Advanced STD Test *** Herpes Test Kit *** HPV Test Kit *** ORAL HPV Test Kit *** COMMON STD Test Kit Our test kits are available online at Amazon, Walmart, or our website. Please use the code SDC10 for 10% off on our website. Don’t let uncertainty hold you back. STD Hero allows you to take control of your health from the comfort of your home. Once the lab receives your sample, you will receive your doctor-verified results within 48 hours. We strive to provide exceptional customer service, and we are here to help if you have any questions. The Guessing Stops Now... STD Hero!! The test kits are only available in the United States.
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FEATURED EXPERT
Dr. Stephanie (Evolve Your Intimacy)
Dr. Stephanie Sigler is a Certified Sex Therapist (CST), Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and Ph.D. who founded Evolve Your Intimacy to address the unique challenges faced by individuals and couples in non-traditional and non-monogamous relationships. With a passion for helping people design relationships on their own terms, Dr. Stephanie empowers clients to move beyond societal expectations and create meaningful, fulfilling connections that reflect their true desires. Learn more about Evolve Your Intimacy here.
Through Evolve Your Intimacy, Dr. Stephanie provides education, counseling, and practical tools to help clients strengthen communication, resolve challenges, and create relationships that truly thrive. Known for her compassionate and empowering approach, she is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples toward deeper intimacy, authentic connection, and lasting fulfillment.
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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
In the swinger lifestyle, the first move can spark a thrilling journey that's as exciting as it is full of potential. A confident ice-breaker can turn curiosity into chemistry, which can transform into meaningful connections. When it comes to any kind of dating, confidence is sexy, but overconfidence (or downright cockiness) can kill the vibe.
When you’re infused with confidence, making your first move to connect with swinger couples or open-minded individuals becomes not just a flirtation but an invitation to a sexy experience.
Let’s explore how to spark genuine connections in the swinger community, when to step forward (and when to wait and be patient), and how to make your swinging adventures as smooth as possible....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC White Party @ Miami Velvet
Miami, FL
Saturday, September 6th, 2025 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight
SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays Join the Miami Velvet SDC Community for more information about upcoming Miami Velvet events and specials!
Annual Barbie Super Party (sponsored by SDC)
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 13th September, 2025 Barbie-Themed Super Party with SDC at Wicked Club – Marbella’s Most Seductive Playground Saturday Night | Doors Open at 21:00 | Couples & Single Ladies Only Get ready to step into a world of playful fantasy and stylish seduction! Join us at Wicked Club for an exclusive Barbie-themed night of fun, flirtation, and fantasy, in collaboration with SDC. Who’s It For?
Open exclusively to couples and single ladies, this event is perfect for the curious and the experienced alike. Whether it’s your first time or you're a seasoned lifestyle enthusiast, you’ll feel at home in our luxurious, judgment-free, and sensual environment. What to Expect:
From the moment you arrive, you'll be swept into a dream world of vibrant décor, seductive music, and electric energy. Live DJ sets to keep you dancing all night
Themed dress-up encouraged – think sexy Barbie, Ken, glam dolls, and dream house chic
Elegant play spaces and private lounges
A respectful and open-minded community of like-minded people Event Highlights:
Couples & Single Ladies Only – An intimate, upscale vibe
Luxury Play Areas – Sophisticated and discreet spaces designed for comfort and connection Dress Code Encouraged – Dress up Barbie-style or come glam in your own way—just bring your best party energy! Why You’ll Love It:
A night of exciting connections, flirtation, and sensual exploration
Marbella’s premier swingers venue, designed for elegance, discretion, and indulgence
A safe and respectful environment where everyone plays by the same rules Opportunities for socializing, dancing, and whatever else the night inspires… Venue: Wicked Château – Wicked Club Marbella
Dinner Option: Add €25/person
Reserve Early – Spots Fill Fast! Our themed parties are among the most anticipated events in the lifestyle scene.
Don’t miss your chance to be part of a truly unforgettable night of Barbie dreams, decadent pleasures, and wicked connections.
Dare to be fabulous. Dare to be bold. Dare to be... Barbie.
SDC Naughty School Girl Party
Euless, TX
Saturday, September 13th, 2025 9pm - 4am BACK TO SCHOOL
Jocks VS The Nerds SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER! ADMISSION:
VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $75
MEMBER COUPLES - $95
MEMBER FEMALES - $35
MEMBER MALES - $200 EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX. 76040
www.EdenClubs.com
Hotwife Friday
Duncanville, TX
Friday, September 19th, 2025 Hotwife/Greedy Girls/ GB Night.... Men Wanted!! This is Co-Hosted party with HotwifeParties.com DFW Farewell Parties. Are you a hungry, greedy girl who loves being with extra men or even multiple men? Then this event is for you. Unleash your fantasies at our Greedy Girls Nights. Couples and single women seeking the pleasure of extra male attention or the erotic appeal of watching others are invited. We also welcome those looking for a night of excitement and fun without the added complication of extra men. For the daring women who crave the thrill of extra male attention, this evening is your playground. Ignite your passions with the hottest lifestyle couples and singles in DFW. Our hand-picked guests ensure a night of pure excitement. We're a sophisticated venue hosting a stylish crowd. Dress to impress and let your personality shine.
https://PlayHousedfw.com
Just for Dinner London
London, UK
Friday, 19th September, 2025 For those in the lifestyle who appreciate a slender ankle in a red-soled pump, the hand-stitched interior of a classic German automobile, and a 2007 Insignia, this event is for you. Just For Dinner is the perfect way to meet other professional couples, like yourselves, who are in the lifestyle. Join us in the finest private dining room of one of the city’s best-reviewed restaurants as you immerse yourselves in a five-course dining experience. Combining each chef’s seasonal tasting menu with the sommelier’s best pairings, even the most sophisticated palate won’t be left wanting. These culinary events are elegant, unhurried, and discreet. The guest list is always selective and by invitation only. Press the Event Link button to request an invitation and join us… Just For Dinner.
Eyes Wide Shut
Torino, Italy
Saturday, 27th September, 2025 A UNIQUE EXPERIENCE The most iconic party of Libertine Queen is back with a new edition, ready to enchant and surprise. Our castle in Piedmont reopens its doors for a night that blends luxury, desire, and mystery. Selected couples from all over Europe will meet to live a timeless experience, inspired by the cult of pleasure and the charm of anonymity. Historic, evocative settings, plays of light, a suspended atmosphere will accompany you on an unforgettable night. Crossing that threshold means letting yourself be guided by your instinct. At the stroke of midnight, the ritual will come to life, marking the beginning of a night of freedom, sensuality, and discovery. A journey that will take you to the center of your deepest desire. Entrance from 9:30 pm to 11:00 pm. After this time, the doors will close and the party will continue in a completely private form.The us
e of cell phones or recording devices is prohibited. STRICT DRESS CODE
Entrance will only be allowed to those who respect the dress code:
- HER - black cape and mask, seductive lingerie
- HIM - black cape and mask, white shirt, black pants, and elegant shoes. Elegance is not just aesthetics: it is a code that defines belonging to a select and reserved world. THE MOST EXCLUSIVE NIGHT An open bar with Champagne, excellent Franciacorta, signature drinks and a gourmet selection curated down to the smallest details awaits you.
Shows, artistic performances, DJ sets, each element is designed to stimulate the senses and amplify the atmosphere.
An immersive, elegant, transgressive night. In one word: unforgettable. Here nothing is improvised: everything is designed to lead you into a lucid dream, where eroticism becomes art and discretion is sacred.
https://www.libertinequeen.com/en/eyes-wide-shut-party-in-maschera
Zodiac Oasis AND Starlight Supernova @ Secrets
Kissimmee, FL
September 26 & 27, 2025 10am-5pm Secrets Hideaway's 16th Anniversary Weekend
"Zodiac Oasis Pool Party" Kick off the celebration in cosmic style with the "Zodiac Oasis Pool Party" on Friday, September 26th, from 10am – 5pm, as we launch Secrets Hideaway's 16th Anniversary Weekend! This celestial-themed poolside bash invites you to embrace your zodiac energy—whether you’re a fiery Aries, sensual Taurus, or mysterious Scorpio, there’s a place in the stars (and in the pool) just for you. Slip into your sexiest swimwear, soak up the Florida sun, and prepare for a day of fun, flirty vibes, and high-energy beats. With top DJs spinning poolside, ice-cold cocktails flowing, and games inspired by the stars, this clothing-optional oasis is the perfect place to align your desires and connect with other free-spirited partygoers. Celebrate 16 years of wild memories and passionate moments with a day that’s written in the stars. Whether you’re making a splash, tanning your buns, or diving into playful conversation, the Zodiac Oasis Pool Party is your first taste of an unforgettable anniversary weekend at Secrets Hideaway! Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11am sharp.
Reserve your poolside cabana, and it's all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!! Secrets Hideaway's 16th Anniversary Weekend
"Starlight Supernova" Celebrate 16 incredible years of passion, freedom, and unforgettable moments at Secrets Hideaway’s 16th Anniversary with "Starlight Supernova" on Friday, September 26th! Step into a cosmic celebration where shimmering stars, glowing galaxies, and radiant bodies collide in a night of pure, interstellar seduction. Dress in your most dazzling space-inspired attire—think metallics, neon accents, and celestial sparkle—and prepare to light up the night in true Secrets style. As the dance floor pulses beneath starlit skies, the atmosphere will be electric with high-energy beats, stunning performances, and a crowd ready to launch into the next era of adventure. Whether you're dancing among the stars, sipping cosmic cocktails, or exploring new connections, "Starlight Supernova" sets the tone for an anniversary celebration that’s out of this world. Join us for a night of radiant memories, sexy surprises, and the start of another galaxy-shaking year at Secrets Hideaway!
www.SecretsFL.com
Eyes Wide Shut themed Masquerade Ball
Dunedin, FL
Saturday, October 18th, 2025 Time: 8:08 PM – 11:08 PM (Private Event)
11:08 PM – 1:00 AM: Doors open to the public but the true heat happens before 11:08pm! Location: The Patio Lounge, 949 Huntley Ave, Dunedin, FL 34698 Step into the shadows and indulge your fantasies at Fire Phoenix 888’s Eyes Wide Shut theme Masquerade Ball, a night of seductive mystery, sultry masks, and fiery energy! This exclusive lifestyle event is not just a party... It's an experience! Masquerade Required Attire* Masks are strongly encouraged and recommended the more creative, the better! This is your chance to be bold, sexy, and mysterious! Dress to Impress! No sneakers or flip-flops. Elegant, stylish, and seductive is the name of the game! We’ll be hosting a costume contest, so bring your A-game and get ready to turn heads sexy people! Fiery Entertainment* Prepare for scorching performances all night long including seductive dancers, a sexy songstress, and the electrifying DJ LoyalT! Who’s taking social media by storm with his fiery beats! We had to have him! And now you get to feel the heat live!
This is a night you’ll never forget!