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Orgasms

Everyone deserves pleasure! There are many types of orgasms you can experience, including squirting and prostate orgasms. Learn how to give your lover an orgasm, how to make a woman squirt, how to have multiple orgasms, how to delay your orgasm to make sex last longer, and more sex tips.
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Premature Ejaculation in the Swinging Lifestyle
How to deal with pressure and timing in erotic play spaces.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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PREMIUM
Rediscovering Soft Swap at Dutch Swingers Club Fun4Two
Are you a long-time full-swap couple who often rule out soft-swap profiles? Now is a time to reconsider that as Cate and Darrell share a recent soft swap at a swingers club and how hot it was!


 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!


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Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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PREMIUM
The Self-Love Conversation
Hosts Adam and Pris embrace the act of self-love in their conversation on masturbation.

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Talking Fantasies in Relationships
Adam and Pris discuss their personal fantasies and desires, sex lives, open communication, and more.


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Mile High Club Before Christmas
Two ladies take this lucky man's holiday flight to new heights.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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Christmas Eve Surprise for His Wife!
A holiday twist on the fantasy of going home with the bartender

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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!


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PREMIUM
Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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PREMIUM
Jack: Our First Threesome
Hear the story of TallnSexy's first threesome.


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PREMIUM
Male Multiple Orgasms: Separating Ejaculation from Orgasm
Most men experience orgasm and ejaculation as one event, but did you know they can be separated?

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Awkward Stories: 3 Real-Life Soft Swap Adventures
Jason and Stephanie open up about three of their most memorable — and hilariously awkward — soft swap experiences.

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Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.