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Orgasms

Everyone deserves pleasure! There are many types of orgasms you can experience, including squirting and prostate orgasms. Learn how to give your lover an orgasm, how to make a woman squirt, how to have multiple orgasms, how to delay your orgasm to make sex last longer, and more sex tips.
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Premature Ejaculation in the Swinging Lifestyle
How to deal with pressure and timing in erotic play spaces.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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Christmas Eve Surprise for His Wife!
A holiday twist on the fantasy of going home with the bartender


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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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Mile High Club Before Christmas
Two ladies take this lucky man's holiday flight to new heights.


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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

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Male Multiple Orgasms: Separating Ejaculation from Orgasm
Most men experience orgasm and ejaculation as one event, but did you know they can be separated?

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Myth-Busting Squirting: The Science of Female Pleasure
Squirting is one of the most debated and misunderstood aspects of female pleasure. But here’s the truth: it’s real, it’s natural, and for many, it can be an incredibly satisfying experience.

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Avoiding Sticky Situations: Money Shots in Swinging
In the swinging lifestyle, clear communication is key, even about the ‘money shot.’ Don’t assume where to finish! This guide dives into boundaries, consent, and keeping the energy fun and respectful during play.


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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?