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Polyamory

Open relationships take many forms, and polyamory is one of them. Polyamorous relationships can be complex for all the partners and metamours involved. Get tips on managing poly relationships with multiple partners, how to handle jealousy, communication tips, and more.
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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.

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Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.


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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.

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Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion
Adam and Pris discuss anticipation versus experience, funny incidents at lifestyle events, heartfelt lessons on inclusivity, and more.


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Navigating Friendships in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris touch on an intriguing subject: friendships in non-monogamous relationships.

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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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Flirting Into Foreplay!
Flirting isn’t just for first dates! It’s the secret sauce that keeps relationships fun, playful, and connected, both in and out of the lifestyle.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle


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Great Play Starts with Great Agreements
Some people hear the words 'agreements' or 'boundaries' and think of rules, restrictions, or a list of “don’ts.” I see them differently.

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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.

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Why Denver’s Lifestyle Scene Is Perfect for Newbie Swingers
The Mile High City might seem an unlikely contender for a swinging community hotspot, but that’s exactly why it’s perfect for those taking their first steps into this exciting, sexy world.


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How to Upload Pics
Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.


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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.


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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.