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Why Pics Are Key

Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

SDC Media

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”

You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.

Taylor Sparks

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry

Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

Taylor Sparks

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth

Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

Taylor Sparks

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns

Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

Taylor Sparks

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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy

Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

Taylor Sparks

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Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy

In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

Taylor Sparks

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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy

Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

Taylor Sparks

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Stop Trying Not to Want What You Want

Let’s talk about something that too many people navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) silently wrestle with: You’re trying not to want what you actually want.

Taylor Sparks

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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy

Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

Taylor Sparks

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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy

If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).

Taylor Sparks

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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"

These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

JAY MOJAS

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Love, Drama, and Boundaries on Couple to Throuple

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when The Bachelor meets ethical non-monogamy (ENM), here it is.

Lauren Hayes

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto

This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.

Lexi Sylver

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!

Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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