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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Watch this video to learn some expert advice when it comes to navigating the open lifestyle as a single male!
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DO:
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Describe yourself beyond your sex drive & the size of your body parts.
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Share what you bring to the table… humor? patience? emotional intelligence?
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Name what you're hoping to experience (soft swap or full swap? ongoing connection?)
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Mention how long you’ve been in the open lifestyle and how you respect couples’ boundaries… that matters.
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Mention that you’re in it for quality, not quantity… but only IF THAT’S TRUE. If it isn’t, people will talk, and you’ll lose credibility. This is NOT a resume you want to spruce up with exaggeration. The truth is going to get you WAY further and with the right people.
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Share pics of something other than your package… showcase your fashion sense, hobbies, and personality.
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Communicate your respect for both partners, whether the other male will be present or not during play. Your relationship with and respect toward him are AS IMPORTANT as your connection with the female.
DON'T:
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Lead with “Hung, fit, DDF” or any variant of “I just wanna please.”
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Use one-liners like “HMU” or “I want to play.”
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Communicate as though you believe the wife will want you more than her husband. That is not at all what the open lifestyle is about. You are supplemental to their relationship, and it’s an honor for everyone involved.
What are some other Dos and Don’ts for solo males? Let us know in the comments.
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