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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SDC We Gotta Thing Podcast Mr Mrs Jones Swingers Lifestyle
Me & Mrs. Jones
Greetings! We are Mr. and Mrs. Jones and We Gotta Thing! We're here to share our adventures (the good AND the not so good) with you and hope to be a resource for those curious about what this lifestyle is all about.

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Sex Clubs: What are They Really Like?
While swingers' clubs are more well-known for couples and singles who are looking to hook up with each other, sex clubs have a more broad definition.

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How to Seduce Your Lover
What is seduction really all about? How can you discover the best ways to seduce your partner?


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

SDC Lexi Sylver Mating Season Erotic Writing Stories
Erotic Stories and How to Write Them
Lexi Sylver talks about erotica in the modern era, how her new book Mating Season came to be, and even shares a sexy reading from the book.


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Meet Theg00dfellaz, the Ultimate Fantasy FulfillHERS
Ladies, did you know that there is a group of good-looking and educated respectful single Men of Color that host hotel takeovers specifically designed for couples and single females who enjoy them?

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Swinging & Social Anxiety: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 40 (Part 1)
Bella and Jase talk about social anxiety when it comes to swinging, how they experienced it, and how they overcame it at a party they attended.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Dealing with Jealousy in The Lifestyle
Dan and Lacy talk about how to deal with jealousy in the Lifestyle.

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Embrace the Fun: Outfits & Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this unscripted episode, Jason dives into the importance of outfits in the lifestyle and how they can help boost your confidence, especially if you feel socially awkward at parties and events.


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Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular, and Surprising Scenarios
Do you want to know what kinds of filthy things that people fantasize about?

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?