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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.

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What are the Dos & Don'ts of Sex Club Etiquette?
Whether you're curious about clubs or are a seasoned pro, these sex club tips are for you.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Men's Guide to Sending the Best Nudes
You did it! You found someone who ASKS for a pic of your package. Make the best first impression with these sexpert tips!


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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Openlove 101: Swinging Lifestyle and Playing Alone
Swinging doesn't always mean playing together. John and Jackie tackle the tough "alone play" dilemma lots of couples face when entering the lifestyle.

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Open Relationships & Playing with Couples
You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change."


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Download Our SDC Erotic Dating App Today!
If you're seeking like-minded people to enhance your lifestyle, you'll love our Erotic Dating App.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?