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How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)

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Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.

You don’t need the perfect bio right out of the gate, you just need SOMETHING so you don’t miss opportunities when people see "coming soon" or "under construction." They’re not gonna keep checking back to see when you add a bio… they’re gonna move on to the next person who actually completed their profile!

In this reel, I show you how to write a solid first draft bio in under 5 minutes following 3 simple guidelines:

Be concise
Say what you're into
Add a little flavor

Because an empty bio tells people nothing… and that’s not the vibe we're going for.

Watch this video, make your free profile on SDC, and let’s get you in the game!

How To Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes or Less

No one wants to read a novel of a bio… but if you tend to be long-winded like me, make sure you lead with your relationship style and what you’re into. Because a lot of people aren’t gonna get past the first paragraph…

And even if that kinda annoys you — I mean, you put all of that effort into it, so you expect people to at least READ it — the reality is, it’s just not going to happen a lot of the time. People are busy, and they’re trying to sift through tons of profiles fast.

And YOU’RE gonna be the one dealing with a bunch of messages from people who aren’t a good fit if you don’t keep this simple solution in mind. Lead with your orientation and what you’re looking for — it saves everyone so much time!

So, here’s an example of a good first paragraph…

A Good First Paragraph

We’re a swinger couple, but we aren’t super swappy. We’re more into same room, same pile play, and always together. We strongly prefer couples with super-bi females, as that is a big part of what got us started in the lifestyle. We have no preference in terms of the orientation of the male, but our guy is straight, so if you’re looking for a bi-guy connection, we wouldn’t be a good fit. And just a heads-up: we are not looking for solo guys for play.

This sets you up for maximum success — it draws in people with similar play styles and deters those who aren’t a good fit. A total time-saver for everyone!

If this is the ONLY paragraph you put in your bio, be sure to add a CALL TO ACTION: ‘Intrigued? Message us, we’d love to chat!’

Showcase Your Personalities

BUT I highly recommend having at least one more paragraph that showcases a bit of your personalities. Even something as simple as this can pique the interest of a couple with a similar vibe:

We love festivals, music concerts, traveling, and all things salty & sweet almost as much as we love sex… and if you can figure out a way to combine all of those things? Whew! Don’t even get us started!

This highlights a bit of your personality and interests while helping people determine if you have similar interests.