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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!

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PREMIUM
QUICKIE: Public Play — Pushing the Boundaries
Hosts Adam and Pris recount their experiences in an exhibitionist adventure.


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Navigating Friendships in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris touch on an intriguing subject: friendships in non-monogamous relationships.

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Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion
Adam and Pris discuss anticipation versus experience, funny incidents at lifestyle events, heartfelt lessons on inclusivity, and more.

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Flirting Into Foreplay!
Flirting isn’t just for first dates! It’s the secret sauce that keeps relationships fun, playful, and connected, both in and out of the lifestyle.


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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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Say It Out Loud — The Power of Affirmation!!!
In this episode, Jason and Stef dive into the role of affirmation.

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PREMIUM
Exploring Menopause and Buttholes
Why is no one talking about menopause and the lifestyle? Oh, because it's really difficult to make sexy.


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PREMIUM
Mechanic Boy and a More-some
TallnSexy shares the stories of Mechanic Boy and their first more-some

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PREMIUM
Max: A Steamy Introduction
Listen to the first episode of My Bed Post about their foray into the swinging lifestyle.

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PREMIUM
Donny: Her first BBC, or Maybe MBC
The story of Donny, MrsTallnSexy's first BBC or, as they refer to it, MBC...


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PREMIUM
Matt: A Night in Dallas, Texas
It begins with a steamy night in Dallas...

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A Real Couple's First Time Swapping
Jason and Stephanie share their story of guiding a newbie couple through their first swinging experience.

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Your Coochie Hurts: Treating Chronic Sexual Pain in Women
In this episode, Jason and Stephanie Class interview Naomi Harris, a practitioner who works with women who have sexual pain and issues.