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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
In ethical non-monogamy (ENM), past experiences — especially from monogamous relationships — can create a mental filter that makes you see what you expect to see… not what's really happening. That’s called confirmation bias, and it’s keeping you stuck.
In this video, you’ll learn:
- What confirmation bias is (and how it shows up in ENM)
- How trauma from cheating or abandonment can cloud new experiences
- How your mind uses bias to protect — but also limit — you
- Red flags that you’re operating from bias, not truth
- Tools to interrupt this pattern and build trust, presence, and freedom in your ENM relationships
Want to go deeper? Grab the An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook (Now Available)! Book your FREE 20-Minute Clarity Call at OrganicLoven. Let’s move from fear-based assumptions to freedom-based connection. Your love. Your rules. Your freedom.
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FLCHARMINGMAN
Jul 30, 2025
This was so helpful to watch! Thank you for breaking this dynamic down and it really resonated with me today.
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