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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!


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PREMIUM
Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!


Colorful landscape and sunset near Blue lagoon hot spring spa in Iceland
Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.

Champs Elysees and Arc de Triomphe in Paris France night scene with car traffic
Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.

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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.


Aerial view of seaside Cap d'Agde Naturist Village resort in France
Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Offense vs. Defense: The Game Playing Out in Relationships
What if relationship growth didn’t have to come from conflict or repair? This article unpacks the idea of offense vs. defense in relationships, using a real retreat insight to explore how proactive care, intentional connection, and ongoing maintenance can deepen intimacy — particularly within ethical non-monogamy.

Illuminated Eiffel Tower in Paris France at night
Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.


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PREMIUM
Wet Snow: Writing Contest Winner!
This curious couple caught a thrill on a random weekday afternoon in the snow.

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PREMIUM
QUICKIE: Public Play — Pushing the Boundaries
Hosts Adam and Pris recount their experiences in an exhibitionist adventure.

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Navigating Friendships in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris touch on an intriguing subject: friendships in non-monogamous relationships.