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Build anticipation and give your partner extra pleasure with foreplay. Get oral sex tips to give the best cunnilingus and blow jobs, and discover more advice on making foreplay exciting and enjoyable for you and your lover(s).
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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!
It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!


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How to Upload Pics
Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

The New Tantra
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?


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BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.

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WATCH: List Your Erotic Rental on SDC's New BNB Service
Do you have a sexy BNB? Watch this video to learn how to reach SDC's community and book lifestyle guests today!

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Seduction, Flirting, and the Art of the Tease
Explore the art of seduction, flirting, teasing, and the power of sexual anticipation in this sexy new podcast called Please Me!


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No More Shaming Women's Bodies
Find out how Women’s bodies have been scrutinized and body shamed now and historically and how we can overcome it.

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How to Say No at a Sex Club Respectfully
There is no room for people-pleasing in the swinger and sex club lifestyle. Learn HOW to say no firmly and respectfully with these tips.

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES


Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer
Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life?

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Which is More Intimate: Sleeping Together OR Oral Sex?
In this Ask a Sex Goddess video, Taylor discusses the nuances of intimacy and sex.