What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?

How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

Sometimes, one partner might feel ready to explore the swinging lifestyle, while the other isn’t sure they want to take that step (or is certain they don’t want to open up your relationship). What sounds like freedom and excitement to one person can sound risky or threatening to the other.

That difference in what each of you desires doesn’t mean anything is wrong or that your relationship is broken, but it can mean something’s waking up beneath the surface. Maybe it’s a craving for change or curiosity, a hunger for adventure, or the simple urge to feel alive again. 

There are many reasons couples open up their relationship, and a better understanding of these can also help you discover what may appeal to both you and your partner should you choose together to evolve beyond monogamy. Relationships evolve and shift, and sometimes, one person may start to wonder what lies beyond the “known” in their monogamous relationship.

It’s important to stay open-minded to each other’s suggestions. What matters isn’t whether you decide to swing, it’s how you talk about the desire if and/or when it emerges....READ MORE.  

BAD BUNNY. My Frisky Business

Brooklyn, NY Saturday, April 4th, 2026

MY FRISKY BUSINESS PRESENTS!!! BAD BUNNY NAUGHTY PARTY

My Frisky Business presents Bad Bunny Lingerie Party

Join us on Saturday April 4th from 10PM to 4AM , at THE LOFT in Brooklyn, NY We are calling all the bad bunnies to come out and play. Ladies break out your sexy lingerie and bunny ears. Gentlemen be a bunny, dress like Hugh Hefner or just dress to impress

This is an ON-PREMISE, FULL CLUB TAKEOVER. The venue is BYOB, & the club will supply all your mixers, sodas, & water.

DJ PHILLY PHIL & DJ FRISKY will be spinning your favorite tunes to keep you shaking your booty on the dance floor.

There is NO MEMBERSHIP FEE required for this SPECIAL FRISKY TAKEOVER, which is open to all Couples, & Singles Ladies ONLY.

Venue Info The Loft is a beautiful upscale location with attention to detail. It's the perfect spot for meeting, mingling, and PLAYING!

• Huge Party Room with DJ, dance floor, stripper pole, and bar. • Photo Booth room • A large on-premises play area

THE LOFT is located at: 70a John Street, Brooklyn, NY Free parking can be easily found on the street. There is also a parking garage down the block. www.TheLoftESL.com

BUNNY QUEENS

Rome, Italy Saturday, April 4th, 2026

Queens by instinct. Temptresses by nature.

An exclusive, forbidden, and irresistible night. The Vault is transformed into a secret kingdom dominated by the Bunny Queens, sensual and sophisticated creatures who lead the game of temptation.

The lights are soft, velvet and golden reflections envelop the rooms. Deep music, hypnotic rhythms, spectacular performances.

The Bunny Queens are not just bunnies: They are queens of desire, elegant, provocative, and magnetic. Guests enter a dimension where:

Seduction is a language A look is an invitation Touch is a promise Mystery is the true excitement During the night:

Stage entrance of the Bunny Queens Sensual and choreographed dance shows Guided seduction games Private moments and exclusive rituals A growing atmosphere leading to the final emotional peak

A night to be experienced, not told.

"At Caveau, there are no ordinary bunnies... only Bunny Queens ready to rule the night."

Info and inquiries at www.caveau.club
WA +39 3423346894 Women's Dress Code – Bunny Queens in Lingerie

Objective: Provoke without being vulgar. Dominate without being over the top.

Fetish Factory presents BLASFFEMY Fetish Party

Fort Lauderdale, FL Saturday, April 11th, 2026

10pm - 3am

Sin and sin again with all of us at our BLASFFEMY Fetish Party, happening on April 11th at Aquaplex in Oakland Park. Come dressed as our dress code demands, and get ready to experience the depraved minds and stained souls at work on stage and on the dance floor. We've got play stations also, where you can get on your knees and confess whatever's been bouncing around your nasty little mind. Grab your tickets NOW: if you didn't get in here for the first two parties, then the 3rd time will definitely be the charm.

WHERE: Aquaplex (Aquaplex Fort Lauderdale Show Palace, Restaurant & Bar) 1421 E Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33334

TABLE SERVICE & RESERVATIONS https://fetishfactory.com/aquaplex-ftl-daily-cocktails-list/
Please contact hello@alteregoparty.com  after ticket purchase with name, phone number, number of guests and desired bottle.

TICKETS • $25 in-store (cash only) • $35 online • $40 at the door PERFORMERS & DANCERS: TBD

DJs: • Ray Milian

DRESSCODE This event has a strict dress code — no exceptions.

We command the following attire: Bondage Bishops – Pervy Priests – Cyber Erotica - Kinky Lingerie – Kinky Clergy – Latex – Vinyl - Nasty Nuns – Cyber Punk – Cyber Goth - Kinky Drag – Nu Goth

ABSOLUTELY NO JEANS, NO ALL BLACK STREETWEAR, NO SLACKERS, NO RUNNING SHOES, NO EXCEPTIONS!

MORE INFO: https://fetishfactory.com/blasffemy-april-11-2026/ 

JOIN US - TRANSFORM YOURSELF

SDC The Risqué Rave

Euless, TX Saturday, April 11th, 2026

9pm - 4am

The Risqué Rave Grind To The Electric Beat!

ADMISSION: VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $75 MEMBER COUPLES - $95 MEMBER FEMALES - $35 MEMBER MALES - $200

EdenClubs.com  11050 S Pipeline Road Euless, TX. 76040

SDC Lingerie Sexy

Paris, France Saturday, April 18th

10:30 pm

When the fire of your desires ignites your dreams… Step into the world of your Blazing Fantasies. Dare to seduce without limits.

Dress Code: Sexy Chic & Elegance. Shine. Dare. Captivate Sensual Lingerie

The Experience: Welcome the Constellations. You will be the constellations that illuminate this magical night!

Musical Atmosphere A DJ weaves sensual and intoxicating rhythms, building the tension in a symphony of desires.

Highlights: Sensory Exploration Let yourself be carried away by dedicated spaces, intimate alcoves, and themed lounges where glances ignite, and caresses intensify…

A Night Where Anything Becomes Possible: An invitation to surrender to the call of the night and bring your deepest fantasies to life...

Let yourself be carried away by your desires.

*Single men admitted by strict selection – limited number. wemagnifique.fr

Luminous 2026

Fort Walton Beach, FL April 30th - May 3rd, 2026

Risqué Lifestyle Presents: LUMINOUS 2026

A Three-Day Experience

IMPORTANT To attend this event, you must purchase event tickets in addition to booking your room. Room reservations alone do not grant access to the event.

A room is not needed to attend the event.

Tell your friends, bring your crew—let’s push this party to a full 100 Tower takeover!

Stay locked in… themes, vendors, and all the juicy details are coming your way soon!

Thursday - Day time: Crab Island Excursion -  Night time: Meet N Greet Friday - Day time: Pool/Beach Party - Night time: Themed Party in ballroom Saturday - Day time: Pool/Beach Party/Beach Volleyball Tournament - Nighttime: Themed Party in ballroom.

Seeking Venus 10 Year Anniversary

London, UK Saturday, 9th May, 2026

A decade ago, we started an adventure. Since then, we've enjoyed 10 years of magic, building a secret world of sexuality and soul, kink and connection. Now, in celebration of all we've shared, it's a very special privilege to announce our anniversary event on the 9th of May.

SEEKING VENUS is an evening wrapped in theatricality, providing a range of experiences designed to provoke, intrigue and develop chemistry between guests. It brings together seekers from different scenes for an exploration of sexuality and soul, kink and connection. Our ethereal realm opens its doors very rarely, often only once a year, so come discover what has made our events so highly regarded...

Featuring

• Fabulous private venue in East London with 3 enticing zones to explore:
The Salon, The Temple of Senses and The Sanctum, set across 4 floors! • Mixologists and bespoke cocktail menu • Immersive theatre and installations • Pop-up designer boutique • Intimate parlour games hosted by our Venusians • Sumptuous play spaces and variety of kink furniture • Shibari • Life drawing • DJ Jamie Moon and guests to ignite the dancefloor • Photography sessions • 'The Ritual' • Plus more to be announced...

Our event looks to celebrate a more feminine sensuality. As such, anyone can attend, but only those presenting as female/femme may enter unaccompanied. Join via the website for ticket info, or become part of our community on SDC.