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QUIZ: Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or full of delicious surprises. So… which one are you? Answer these 7 questions honestly, keep an open mind, and we’ll reveal whether you’re The Flirt, The Seducer, The Explorer, or The Wildcard! No wrong answers here, just honest ones! We’ll add up your points at the end to discover your swinger persona. Bonus for couples: Take this quiz with your partner to reveal your swinger couple's persona!
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Hot day? Keep it cool… On warm days, this SDC fan is your ultimate must-have. Stylish, handy, and perfect for cooling yourself down. Wherever you are. Whether you are dancing at a festival, enjoying the sun at a pool party, or standing in the middle of a club… with this fancy fan featuring the SDC logo, you’ll stay cool! And an extra bonus: with this fan, you are instantly recognizable to other SDC members. Ideal for spotting each other and making new connections. A real eye-catcher and lifesaver during summer days and long, warm nights.
May We Tempt You…
May usually feels a little more relaxed without really trying. Things aren’t as rushed, and it seems easier to just go with whatever the day turns into. That’s what makes it a great time for a BNB stay — you don’t need much of a plan. Just a space that’s yours for a bit, where you can slow down and enjoy each other. With your own space and no real schedule, you can head out to a nearby club or local meet-&-greet, or stay in, maybe even change your mind halfway through. The choice is completely yours! So, let us tempt you into checking out our sexy BNBs with open-minded hosts here on SDC! Guest Tip: Let your mood decide the plan. May’s just… better that way.
Cruise News
Mardi Gras Cruise * February 19 – 25, 2028 For the first time, Bliss is bringing an unforgettable lifestyle experience to New Orleans during Mardi Gras, right in the heart of the Big Easy. Departing the Saturday before Mardi Gras 2028 and returning on the Friday just before Fat Tuesday, this perfectly-timed sailing puts you right at the center of all the action. Days at sea bring time to relax, flirt, and explore. At night, we turn up the heat with themed parties, music, entertainment, and the kind of chemistry that only happens when thousands of like-minded couples come together. Add in two sought-after Mexican ports, and this cruise delivers an escape with plenty of room for both first-timers and veterans to find their own rhythm. If you've ever wanted to experience Mardi Gras, this is your moment. It is festive, indulgent, and designed to keep the party flowing from embarkation to the final night… and after, with a hotel takeover in the heart of Mardi Gras.
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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Adam and Pris are partners in love, life, and the lifestyle, with a dynamic rooted in trust, fun, and open communication. Together, they host a podcast dedicated to consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and the real, unfiltered truths of the lifestyle, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, and share their knowledge with fellow SDC members during live webinars. Adam and Pris enjoy connecting with fun, like-minded couples and singles who value respect, clear boundaries, and shared enjoyment. For those who resonate with their energy, there’s always the possibility of becoming part of their next great story. Check out Adam & Pris’s Beyond Monogamy upcoming webinars, podcasts, and more here on SDC!
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FEATURED EXPERT
Taylor K. Sparks
Taylor K. Sparks is an Ethical Non-Monogamy coach, holistic sexual health and wellness educator, certified human behavior specialist, and founder of OrganicLoven. She has spent 17+ years navigating ethical non-monogamy within her own 25-year marriage, across open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and kink.
She coaches individuals, couples, and throuples through jealousy, communication breakdowns, boundary negotiations, and the conversations most people avoid until it's too late. Her approach pairs lived experience with professional training, not textbook theory.
A published author of three books, Taylor has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Daily, Forbes, Men's Health, Women's Health, Glamour, and 300+ media outlets, and has presented at 20+ international cruises. Not sure where you are on your ENM journey? Her free 10-question ENM Readiness Quiz delivers personalized results in 3 to 5 minutes. Check out the link in her SDC profile.
Watch videos, listen to podcasts, and read articles by Taylor here on SDC.
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Three Tips to Start Your ENM Journey
Transitioning your marriage or monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous relationship is one big project, if you will. Here are a few steps to get you started
They say, and I agree, that the start of any project is the hardest part. This is a question I get a lot, “We are both interested, but how do we start?” Transitioning your marriage or monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous relationship is one big project, if you will. It might be even harder to start this project than others because of the seemingly — and real — high emotional stakes. Starting a new diet or a new business seems easy in comparison!
You start non-monogamy the same way you start anything: you plan an action and execute it. You learn from it and then you plan the next action. A woman wrote recently and said they were having trouble starting, that they had been to a house party and were discussing some other parties, but they weren’t sure what they were doing. “You are already doing it,” I responded, “Having an experience, any experience, and then talking about it and planning your next — you’ve already started.” It got me thinking about how swinging can feel like you are on the outside and not really “doing it” until you are “doing it” with another couple. I would say that just talking about it to some degree has you already doing it. Having the difficult and awkward conversations can bring the same benefits that non-monogamy itself does — making you feel more vulnerable, feeling heard and seen, being accepted by your partner, and then feeling closer because of that. For those of you wanting more, here are my top three tips for getting out there and starting your non-monogamous adventures.... READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Erotic Lingerie
Miami, FL
Saturday, May 2nd Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! DRESS IN THEME AND RECEIVE $15 OFF AT THE DOOR Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
SDC Annual Masquerade Ball
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 9th May Exciting Annual Masquerade Ball at Wicked Club Marbella! Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! sponsored by SDC Dress Code: Lingerie or sexy elegant for the ladies | Formal dress for gents Masks are a MUST! Where can you get a mask? Most Chinese bazzars sell them, or online (amazon) or at the entrance of the club. Looking for an unforgettable night of fun, connection, and adventure? Join us at Wicked Club for our exclusive themed party, where open-minded people come together for an evening of thrilling experiences in a safe, judgment-free environment. Whether you’re looking to explore your fantasies, meet new people, or simply enjoy a night out with like-minded individuals, our swingers club offers the perfect setting. This event is open to all, from first-timers to seasoned lifestyle enthusiasts, with exciting themes to spark conversation and create an atmosphere of playful seduction. Enjoy the sexy, vibrant atmosphere with themed décor, live DJ sets, dance floors, private lounges, and sensual play spaces designed to help you relax and indulge. Event Highlights:
Exclusive Theme: Dress to the theme or dress provocative, sexy and elegant!
Open to Couples & Ladies only: Whether you’re flying solo or coming with a partner, there’s something for everyone.
Luxury Play Spaces: Experience our private, upscale play areas designed for comfort and intimacy.
Dress Code Encouraged: Dress to impress and fit the theme, or come as you are and enjoy the party atmosphere.
www.wickedclub.com
SDC A.T.G (Anything that Glows)
Euless, TX
Saturday, May 9th 9pm - 4am
A.T.G.
Anything That Glows!
SATURDAY, May 9th Come glow SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER!
(Limited to Couples & Single Females) ADMISSION:
VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $75
MEMBER COUPLES - $95
MEMBER FEMALES - $35
MEMBER MALES - $200 EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX. 76040
Seeking Venus 10 Year Anniversary
London, UK
Saturday, 9th May, 2026 A decade ago, we started an adventure. Since then, we've enjoyed 10 years of magic, building a secret world of sexuality and soul, kink and connection. Now, in celebration of all we've shared, it's a very special privilege to announce our anniversary event on the 9th of May. SEEKING VENUS is an evening wrapped in theatricality, providing a range of experiences designed to provoke, intrigue and develop chemistry between guests. It brings together seekers from different scenes for an exploration of sexuality and soul, kink and connection. Our ethereal realm opens its doors very rarely, often only once a year, so come discover what has made our events so highly regarded... Featuring • Fabulous private venue in East London with 3 enticing zones to explore: Our event looks to celebrate a more feminine sensuality. As such, anyone can attend, but only those presenting as female/femme may enter unaccompanied. Join via the website for ticket info, or become part of our community on SDC.
The Salon, The Temple of Senses and The Sanctum, set across 4 floors!
• Mixologists and bespoke cocktail menu
• Immersive theatre and installations
• Pop-up designer boutique
• Intimate parlour games hosted by our Venusians
• Sumptuous play spaces and variety of kink furniture
• Shibari
• Life drawing
• DJ Jamie Moon and guests to ignite the dancefloor
• Photography sessions
• 'The Ritual'
• Plus more to be announced...
Dirty Martini Meet & Greet
Phoenix, AZ
Friday, May 15th Join us for a meet and greet at Blue Martini! Couples and ladies please join us for our meet and greet in May as Dirty Martini takes over the upper bar at Blue Martini May 15th, 2026 at 6:00pm-9:00pm. Blue Martini's Happy Hour (4:00PM to 7:00PM) is available for some tasty appetizers and drinks. Our group will have the upstairs bar area (near the restrooms) during this time, after 9:00pm the upstairs bar opens to the public. We don't have to leave, feel free to stay and enjoy the music and dancing! Blue Martini is located 5455 E High Street Suite 101, Phoenix, AZ 85054. There is a lot of construction going on near High Street, garage and street parking is available. Mention our group, Dirty Martini at the door and they should waive the cover charge. We have been getting more new people attending. Please reach out to someone new so you and meet and greet them! It is always nice to feel welcome and we think our community is very open and welcoming.
http://phoenix.bluemartini.com
CESENA: ATTO PRIMO
Cesena, Italy
Saturday, 16th May Dinner Entrance: 8:00 PM Closed event: for couples and a limited number of single men and women Couples and single men: €350
Single women: €50
Dinner: €100 per person Dress code:
Party Entrance: 10:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Closes: 4:00 AM
Ladies: Long dress, any color, mask with wand
Gentlemen: Tuxedo or elegant suit with white shirt. The suit can be black or navy blue. Mask with a wand.
For the first time, Libertine Queen arrives in Emilia-Romagna.
And it does so by bringing to the stage something never before seen in Italy.
On May 16th, near Cesena, a completely new experience will come to life, a fresh concept, conceived, built, and made possible only thanks to the vision and strength of Libertine Queen. An ambitious, unconventional project. Forget the usual castles, villas, and historic homes; we will transport you to something completely different: a stage of emotion, elegance, and desire.
It will be a night where everything changes. The lights dim, the anticipation grows... and when the curtain opens, nothing will be the same again.
The Playground
Bangkok, Thailand
Saturday, May 30th Rules were made to be broken… especially the fun ones. The Playground is where playful energy turns into something far more tempting. A night of teasing looks, cheeky smiles, and just enough mischief to blur the line between innocent and intentional. Think sporty fits, short skirts, oversized shirts, and outfits that hint at trouble before anything even begins. This isn’t about being serious — it’s about enjoying the moment.
Flirting comes easier, laughter turns into something slower, and every interaction feels just a little more charged than it should. Games, dares, and playful challenges
Teasing, chasing, and just enough tension to keep things interesting Free-flow 9PM–11PM
Food while it lasts
sinfulhouse.com/events Play nice… or don’t.