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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?

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Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle
Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?


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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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Great Play Starts with Great Agreements
Some people hear the words 'agreements' or 'boundaries' and think of rules, restrictions, or a list of “don’ts.” I see them differently.

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!
It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!


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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.

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Why Denver’s Lifestyle Scene Is Perfect for Newbie Swingers
The Mile High City might seem an unlikely contender for a swinging community hotspot, but that’s exactly why it’s perfect for those taking their first steps into this exciting, sexy world.

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Swingers’ Guide to Vegas After Dark: Beyond the Clubs
Whether you're swinging in Las Vegas or enjoying a week-long couples getaway, here’s your definitive guide to everything sultry and seductive to do between parties.


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SDC Breaks Records & Rewards Members with New SDC Premium
SDC.com surges past record-breaking 650M views, rewards members with premium upgrade

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How to Plan the Ultimate Swinging Lifestyle Weekend in Vegas
If you’re thinking about a naughty weekend in Sin City, here’s your guide to enjoying limitless adventure while swinging in Las Vegas!

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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How to Upload Pics
Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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How to Meet Swingers in California: Your Lifestyle Guide
Let’s dive into some flirty and sexy things for swingers to do in California.


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California Swingers: How to Connect, Flirt, and Play
With its sun-kissed beaches, hedonistic nightlife, and relaxed, open-minded culture, California is one of the best places in the United States to experience the swinging lifestyle.

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Beyond the Fantasy: Handling Insecurities in Swinging
Behind the sexy snapshots and wild weekends, the swinging lifestyle also includes real emotions like insecurity, rejection, and self-doubt.

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Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.


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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.