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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!


SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Have the Best Cuckold Experiences
Elevate your cucking experiences from good to unforgettable.

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PREMIUM
Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!


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PREMIUM
Rediscovering Soft Swap at Dutch Swingers Club Fun4Two
Are you a long-time full-swap couple who often rule out soft-swap profiles? Now is a time to reconsider that as Cate and Darrell share a recent soft swap at a swingers club and how hot it was!

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Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Get into the Swinging Lifestyle
New to swinging? Here are some introductory tips!

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

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PREMIUM
Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak
Is event hosting really worth it? What about the ick factors and drama couples? In this episode, Cate, Mickey, and Mallory peel back the layers and go behind the scenes to spill the tea!


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PREMIUM
Cap d'Agde Swingers Vacation: Champagne, Foam Parties, & More
Cate and Darrell go to the swingers' mecca, Cap d'Agde, and retell the funniest and sexiest stories.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!