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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Just Sex Talk EP 115 | Risque Lifestyle Parties
Heath and Renee from Risque Lifestyle Parties join the show and share their experiences in the lifestyle

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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!


Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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PREMIUM
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
Cate attends X Club Toronto solo and gets into some glory hole fun, plus Cate and Darrell take to the skies and visit three new swingers clubs in three weeks!


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PREMIUM
Cap d'Agde Swingers Vacation: Champagne, Foam Parties, & More
Cate and Darrell go to the swingers' mecca, Cap d'Agde, and retell the funniest and sexiest stories.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.

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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?


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PREMIUM
Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.