6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 2
Taylor Sparks
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Learn more about the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.
Welcome to Part 2. Watch Part 1 here if you missed it!
Monogamous relationships and ethically non-monogamous relationships have different foundations and dynamics. While some characteristics may be applicable to both, there are certain aspects that may not transition well from monogamy to ethical non-monogamy due to the nature of each relationship style.
Jealousy as Taboo: In monogamous relationships, jealousy is often considered a negative emotion to be avoided. In ethical non-monogamy, jealousy is recognized as a natural emotion and is addressed openly through communication and emotional processing. Transitioning without accepting and addressing jealousy can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.
COMMENT
Every dynamic encounters conflict. Listen to this podcast to find out how to manage it when multiple partners are involved.
Dr. Liz shares her list of labels under the ethical non-monogamy umbrella to help us better understand ourselves and each other in the lifestyle.
When people imagine Ethical Non-Monogamy, they often assume it only benefits the partner who is “open.” But that’s a narrow and incomplete view.
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.
Ever say something you swear was clear… and your partner responds like you spoke an entirely different language? That “dog hearing a weird noise” look, followed by: “How did you get THAT from what I just said?!”
