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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 2
Learn more about the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.
Welcome to Part 2. Watch Part 1 here if you missed it!
Monogamous relationships and ethically non-monogamous relationships have different foundations and dynamics. While some characteristics may be applicable to both, there are certain aspects that may not transition well from monogamy to ethical non-monogamy due to the nature of each relationship style.
Jealousy as Taboo: In monogamous relationships, jealousy is often considered a negative emotion to be avoided. In ethical non-monogamy, jealousy is recognized as a natural emotion and is addressed openly through communication and emotional processing. Transitioning without accepting and addressing jealousy can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.
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