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Pleasure toys aren't just for masturbation! Sex toys can help improve your orgasmic potential and spice up your partnered sex life. Discover new ways to enjoy your sexual experiences with sex toys, how to use sex toys in a threesome or group sex scenario in the swinging lifestyle, and much more.
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9 Signs You Just Might Be a Swinger
Sure, there are plenty of myths surrounding swingers the lifestyle; however, there are also a few real tell-tale signs you just might be a swinger.

What is Hotwifing REALLY Like?
Many people question why a couple would choose to play apart, and sometimes even assume that they do so because they just want to have sex with someone besides each other. In truth, the exact opposite is true.

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Our First Group Sex in Cancun
This couple reignited their sex life with a swingtastic trip to Mexico!


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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Staying Sexy During Self-Isolation
We’re all conscious of the Coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic that’s swept the world. So, what are we horny folks to do in times like these? Find our pleasures anywhere we can get them, of course!


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Mind-Blowing Gangbang
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.

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Swingers Lifestyle Cruise Hacks
From picking the right cabin to how to boost your sexual prowess, these tips can make your next swingers’ cruise the best one yet!

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

Eat Me Like This
To really get inside and understand a woman — to eat them up — you must think like a woman.

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Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!


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Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice & Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Find out how Tom and Bunny use Motorbunny to meet — and please — new people in the swinging lifestyle

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.