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Pleasure toys aren't just for masturbation! Sex toys can help improve your orgasmic potential and spice up your partnered sex life. Discover new ways to enjoy your sexual experiences with sex toys, how to use sex toys in a threesome or group sex scenario in the swinging lifestyle, and much more.
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What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.
SDC Webinars
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Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!
Sex, Kink, & Lifestyle Q&A
Sex and kink coach Julieta Chiara gets candid about bi awakenings, testing talks, jealousy as a team sport, and who the lifestyle still needs to make room for.
Strap-On Sex
A judgement-free how-to on strap-ons for every experience level, from choosing shape, size and material to techniques that build real confidence.
Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.
The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.
The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.