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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Our First Group Sex in Cancun
This couple reignited their sex life with a swingtastic trip to Mexico!

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Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice & Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Find out how Tom and Bunny use Motorbunny to meet — and please — new people in the swinging lifestyle


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Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!

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9 Signs You Just Might Be a Swinger
Sure, there are plenty of myths surrounding swingers the lifestyle; however, there are also a few real tell-tale signs you just might be a swinger.

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What is Hotwifing REALLY Like?
Many people question why a couple would choose to play apart, and sometimes even assume that they do so because they just want to have sex with someone besides each other. In truth, the exact opposite is true.

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Mind-Blowing Gangbang
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.

Allen’s Corner: A Guy’s Perspective on MFM Threesomes
He went into the lifestyle feeling like the wingman to his wife looking for another man. Here’s how that’s changed with experience.


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Do You Need to be HOT and a WIFE to be a HOTWIFE?
One of the fastest-growing trends in the Consensual Non-Monogamy community, Hotwifing is a hot topic in the media. Here's Cate from Swinging Downunder's twitter experiment about what it means to be a hotwife.

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6 Beginner Tips for Opening Your Relationship
Pushing your sexual boundaries requires some preparation. Follow these tips for a smoother transition into the open Lifestyle.

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My First Threesome Winning Story: The Blindfold
Read SDC’s top-voted threesome member story and see why this couple’s sensory thrill earned them the winning spot.


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Supercharged Pleasure for Couples: A Unique Sex Toy Experience
Designed for male pleasure, but ecstatic for all involved! Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Tenuto sex toy.

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14 Red Flags in Relationships
Relationship coach and swinger Lexi Sylver shares her top red flags that you're experiencing relationship problems.

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The Best Sex Toys for Couples
Sex tech keeps churning out amazing toys that take pleasure to new levels, and MysteryVibe’s collection is on my must-have list this holiday season. Here’s why!