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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Hotwifing Red Flags: How to Read a Couple Before You Commit
What separates a couple worth pursuing from a situation worth walking away from?

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STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.


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PREMIUM
Solo Hotwife Play Date
Cate meets a single guy on SDC locally, and they go on a date, and Darrell waits patiently to hear all the sexy stories of this hotwife adventure!

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Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution, or Opportunism?
Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)


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PREMIUM
The Self-Love Conversation
Hosts Adam and Pris embrace the act of self-love in their conversation on masturbation.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.