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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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Female Orgasmic Disorder: Understanding Pleasure Without Shame
Struggling to orgasm isn't a personal failure. Heather explores why pleasure differs for every body and how to let go of shame and expectations.

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What Is a Swinger Hotel Takeover? What to Expect From a Lifestyle Weekend
A swinger hotel takeover turns a whole hotel into a private lifestyle weekend. Learn how vetting, room blocks, etiquette and checkout work.

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Elevated Intimacy
Tantra coach Justin Gottlieb draws on 20 years in the lifestyle to share tips that help your next sex party feel safer and far more connected.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.

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The Scary Side of the Lifestyle
Swinging coach Lauren gets real about ghosting and the elusive four-way match, and explains why the lifestyle's hard truths are worth pushing through.


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Swinger Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules of the Swinging Lifestyle
How to master swinger etiquette, from consent to discretion, to keep being invited back.

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Boundaries vs. Borders: Why Most People Confuse the Two
Most of us set borders when we mean boundaries. Discover the simple shift that helps you feel safe without trying to control your partner.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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Cuckolding for Beginners: How Couples Explore Cucking Safely
A grounded starting point for couples ready to turn the fantasy into something real.

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How to Vet a New Partner in ENM Before You're Emotionally In
New Relationship Energy quietly edits what you overlook. Ask the real questions early, while your head is clear enough for the answers to matter.

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What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.


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Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.