Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SORT BY:
TYPE:
Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.
An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events
Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground
Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!
When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
How to Meet Swingers Near You
Safe, sexy, and smart strategies for meeting swingers wherever you are.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
Tantra & the Lifestyle: Turning Pleasure into a Path of Awakening
What is Tantra? In the modern lifestyle world, Tantra helps people move beyond performance into presence — transforming sex into energy, pleasure into healing, and connection into art!
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?