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Masturbation

Self-pleasure is a fantastic way to get to know your body and what you enjoy sexually. Whether you prefer masturbating alone or in front of your lover(s), discover how to enhance your masturbation experiences to maximize your pleasure, ways to experiment with sex toys, and more.
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Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.

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The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.

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BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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Health & Wellness Advocate Shae on Self-love
Sisters of Sexuality Podcast Taylor Sparks takes a deep dive into the life, experience, and education of Sex Educator and Health & Wellness Advocate Shae Alexander.


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No More Shaming Women's Bodies
Find out how Women’s bodies have been scrutinized and body shamed now and historically and how we can overcome it.

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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The Best Swingers Clubs & Venues in Orlando, Florida
Everything you need to know about Central Florida's best swingers venues, indoors and outdoors.

Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer
Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life?


SDC Swingers on Ski Lifestyle Vacation in Sierra Nevada Spain
SDC Sexy Ski 2023 — Your Ultimate Winter Sexcapade!
Experience a cool lifestyle surprise on the sunny, powdered slopes in Granada, Spain!

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!