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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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The Art of Lasting Desire: How Long-Term Swingers Stay Hot
The secrets, rituals, and mindset shifts that keep seasoned swingers sizzling year after year.

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Swinger Clubs in California: From the Bay Area to the Desert
The hard part about swinging in California isn't finding a club, it's choosing one.

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What to Expect on a Swingers Cruise
What really happens on a swingers cruise? From ship layout to etiquette, get all the details here.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Have the Best Cuckold Experiences
Elevate your cucking experiences from good to unforgettable.

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PREMIUM
The Finish Line
Game night takes a flirty turn when a playful video game wager raises the stakes — and the loser hands over their phone for the winner's choosing.


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What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.

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PREMIUM
Musical Chairs
A wife's naughty twist on musical chairs turns a couples' party into a game where the last one standing surrenders to whatever the night has in store.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Get into the Swinging Lifestyle
New to swinging? Here are some introductory tips!

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PREMIUM
Best Ever, By Accident
A voyeuristic Home Depot confession unlocks a shared threesome fantasy that turns their apartment into a marathon of best-ever sex.

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PREMIUM
"Don't Freak Out"
A married couple's quiet Tuesday afternoon turns into an unplanned confession, one that leaves them both wanting more than they've admitted, together.


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PREMIUM
The First Conversation
A couple's first tentative conversation about opening their relationship turns into a shared decision to explore swinging together.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!