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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.


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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.


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Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

The New Tantra
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?


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BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.

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Health & Wellness Advocate Shae on Self-love
Sisters of Sexuality Podcast Taylor Sparks takes a deep dive into the life, experience, and education of Sex Educator and Health & Wellness Advocate Shae Alexander.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 6
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.