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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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PREMIUM
Having Sex in a Maze, Swingers Cafe + KamaSutrA Beurs
A sex-positive convention with a maze where couples can have sex?! KamaSutrA is a convention in the Netherlands that SDC sponsors, and Cate and Darrell (our resident Aussie sluts) attend and have sex in a maze!!


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PREMIUM
Are DTF Couples Just More Fun?
Have you heard people refer to couples who are DTF as giving the ick?! Cate and Darrell break down DTF couples and ask the serious question — are they more fun?!

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How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.


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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.


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Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.

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Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Offense vs. Defense: The Game Playing Out in Relationships
What if relationship growth didn’t have to come from conflict or repair? This article unpacks the idea of offense vs. defense in relationships, using a real retreat insight to explore how proactive care, intentional connection, and ongoing maintenance can deepen intimacy — particularly within ethical non-monogamy.


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Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.

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PREMIUM
Wet Snow: Writing Contest Winner!
This curious couple caught a thrill on a random weekday afternoon in the snow.

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Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion
Adam and Pris discuss anticipation versus experience, funny incidents at lifestyle events, heartfelt lessons on inclusivity, and more.


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Navigating Friendships in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris touch on an intriguing subject: friendships in non-monogamous relationships.

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PREMIUM
QUICKIE: Public Play — Pushing the Boundaries
Hosts Adam and Pris recount their experiences in an exhibitionist adventure.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!


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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Swingers & Social Media: Navigating Privacy in the Digital Age
How swingers can discreetly explore digital spaces with a sexy sense of confidence.


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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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PREMIUM
Our Hotwife Christmas Celebration
This couple finally meets their Bull for an erotic hotwife holiday