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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers

What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle

A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage

Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!

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Swingers & Social Media: Navigating Privacy in the Digital Age

How swingers can discreetly explore digital spaces with a sexy sense of confidence.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?

How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date

From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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Our Hotwife Christmas Celebration

This couple finally meets their Bull for an erotic hotwife holiday

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Christmas Eve Surprise for His Wife!

A holiday twist on the fantasy of going home with the bartender

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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes

No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?

Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle

Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!

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SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!

Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships

How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Is There Cheating in the Swinging Lifestyle?

Do swingers cheat? Can there be cheating in an open relationship?

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Tired of Getting 'Hi' and 'Hey' In Your DMs? Try This!

Follow these three quick tips to ensure your profile is inviting quality DMs!

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!

Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe

You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!

Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events

Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.

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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle

Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest

Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected

You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.

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How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters

Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.

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Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground

Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!

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