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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?

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Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle
Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?


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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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Great Play Starts with Great Agreements
Some people hear the words 'agreements' or 'boundaries' and think of rules, restrictions, or a list of “don’ts.” I see them differently.

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!
It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!


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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.

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Why Denver’s Lifestyle Scene Is Perfect for Newbie Swingers
The Mile High City might seem an unlikely contender for a swinging community hotspot, but that’s exactly why it’s perfect for those taking their first steps into this exciting, sexy world.

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Swingers’ Guide to Vegas After Dark: Beyond the Clubs
Whether you're swinging in Las Vegas or enjoying a week-long couples getaway, here’s your definitive guide to everything sultry and seductive to do between parties.


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SDC Breaks Records & Rewards Members with New SDC Premium
SDC.com surges past record-breaking 650M views, rewards members with premium upgrade

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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How to Plan the Ultimate Swinging Lifestyle Weekend in Vegas
If you’re thinking about a naughty weekend in Sin City, here’s your guide to enjoying limitless adventure while swinging in Las Vegas!


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How to Upload Pics
Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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California Swingers: How to Connect, Flirt, and Play
With its sun-kissed beaches, hedonistic nightlife, and relaxed, open-minded culture, California is one of the best places in the United States to experience the swinging lifestyle.


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How to Meet Swingers in California: Your Lifestyle Guide
Let’s dive into some flirty and sexy things for swingers to do in California.

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Beyond the Fantasy: Handling Insecurities in Swinging
Behind the sexy snapshots and wild weekends, the swinging lifestyle also includes real emotions like insecurity, rejection, and self-doubt.

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Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.


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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.