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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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How to Meet Swingers in California: Your Lifestyle Guide
Let’s dive into some flirty and sexy things for swingers to do in California.

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California Swingers: How to Connect, Flirt, and Play
With its sun-kissed beaches, hedonistic nightlife, and relaxed, open-minded culture, California is one of the best places in the United States to experience the swinging lifestyle.


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Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.


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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.


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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

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Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

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Stop Trying Not to Want What You Want
Let’s talk about something that too many people navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) silently wrestle with: You’re trying not to want what you actually want.


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SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.

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10 Signs Another Couple is Interested in Playing with You
From eye contact to subtle touches, these 10 signs will help you read the room and know when it’s time to take things to the next level.

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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).


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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

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A Real Couple's First Time Swapping
Jason and Stephanie share their story of guiding a newbie couple through their first swinging experience.

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Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.


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Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.

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You Want to Go to a Glory Hole!
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their experiences with glory holes, including their visits to two different parties.

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Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.


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Your Coochie Hurts: Treating Chronic Sexual Pain in Women
In this episode, Jason and Stephanie Class interview Naomi Harris, a practitioner who works with women who have sexual pain and issues.

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Talking to Your Partner About Trying Something New
Jason and Stephanie discuss their experiences and challenges in exploring new sexual experiences as a couple, from using sex toys to going to a swingers club.

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Help, Jason Keeps Growing! & How We Wrangle Unicorns
Jason and Stephanie talk about their experiences with unicorns, including how they engage safely with them in practice.