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Swingers

Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Is Polyamory or Swinging Just Cheating With Extra Steps?
Cheating is defined by what's hidden; ENM by what's agreed. Here's why the difference isn't semantics, and how to answer the question with grace.

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PREMIUM
Breakfast for Three
A chance encounter at the hotel jacuzzi turns into a golden morning where one night clearly wasn't enough for the three of them.

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PREMIUM
The Ten Minute Rule: One Night in Ibiza
Three strangers, ten minutes each, and one blindfolded wife with the power to choose who stays until sunrise. An erotic night in Ibiza told in real time.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.

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PREMIUM
Another Notch
A morning-after confession between spouses turns into its own kind of foreplay as they trade last night's steamiest details in bed.


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Polyamory vs. Open Relationship vs. Swinging
Non-monogamy terms get used interchangeably, but they're not. Here's how to tell them apart and pick the structure that fits you.

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What Is DADT (Don't Ask, Don't Tell) in Non-Monogamy
DADT gets a bad rap. People hear "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and assume secrecy, avoidance or a relationship built on not-knowing.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!

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PREMIUM
A Night of Liquid Surrender
Steam, moonlight, and a slow-burning invitation: one couple's hot tub encounter turns from private passion into shared, breathless surrender.

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PREMIUM
Breath and Heat
A slow-burn night in the hot tub where a falling towel is only the beginning.


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PREMIUM
The Villa of Secrets
A woman on a mission from her Master: be watched, be wanted, and confess every single detail.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

Weed to Help Women Orgasm
So, how do you get past the climax block? What if there was a natural substance you could take to help you reach that ultimate high ... on a number of levels?