Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Stop Throwing Away Good Marriages Over Sex
Taylor breaks down the real truth behind sexless marriages, mismatched desire, and why Ethical Non-Monogamy often saves relationships that would otherwise be destroyed over something solvable.
How Did You Get THAT From What I Just Said?
Ever say something you swear was clear… and your partner responds like you spoke an entirely different language? That “dog hearing a weird noise” look, followed by: “How did you get THAT from what I just said?!”
Standing on the Edge: When You’re Not Sure About ENM
Are you standing on the edge of something unfamiliar — like ethical non-monogamy — while your partner is ready to leap?
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
Your Words Are Arrows: How One Sentence Can Damage Trust
Your words are arrows. Once they leave your mouth, you don’t get to call them back.
Managing Jealousy in Open and Committed Relationships
Taylor Sparks explores how jealousy operates in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle it.
Newbie Cucks and Cucking Couples: How to Navigate the Cuckold Lifestyle
Everything worth knowing about cucking as you take your first real steps into the lifestyle.
The Confidence Behind Big Clit Energy
Eve Hall explains how understanding female anatomy, prioritizing clitoral stimulation, improving communication with partners, and supporting sexual health through lifestyle and hormonal awareness can build the confidence and pleasure that define Big Clit Energy and influence satisfaction both in the bedroom and in everyday life.
Threesomes and Group Sex in the Swinging Lifestyle
Lexi Sylver shares expert guidance on navigating group sex dynamics with confidence and clarity, whether you’re exploring solo or as part of a partnership.
Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?