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Swingers

Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!

Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe

You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!

Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected

You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.

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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)

Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!

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How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)

Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC

What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?

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How to Post Travel Plans on SDC

This map might just get you laid!

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!

It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!

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How to Upload Pics

Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

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Why Pics Are Key

Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth

Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns

Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”

You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry

Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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